California Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events

California has 16 verified lifestyle venues with a page on this site: 9 on-premise clubs, 4 party hosts, 1 resort and 2 social venues.

8 of them publish regular party nights or opening hours, and 7 list dated events on their own websites.

This page gathers those schedules in one place. Every line comes from the venue's own site as read on the date shown on its page, and nothing here is taken from third-party calendars.

Dates move and nights get cancelled. Treat this as the starting list, then confirm with the venue before you book a hotel or drive across the state.

Recurring Party Nights in California

Venues in California that publish a weekly pattern or opening hours, listed by city.

Upcoming Dated Events in California

Dated events listed on venue sites at the time of review, by venue. The venue page carries the full detail and the ticket link.

• One Leg Up, Fresno, CA: NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages reviewed. Contact the hosts by text for the current schedule
• Sanctuary, Los Angeles, CA: Regular socials, classes, and play parties. Listings include SOSAK Dungeon Play Party, Kinky Karaoke, ENTRANCE for newcomers, Full Spectrum Flogging, and Mistress Cyan's Dom and sub auctions
• Plush Parties, Palm Springs, CA and Las Vegas, NV: Annual Flesh and Fantasy Ball, Hotel Zoso, Palm Springs, Oct 15 to 18, 2026; Virgin Halloween Cruise on the Brilliant Lady from San Pedro, Oct 24 to 28, 2026; Fancy AF New Year's Eve Bash, San Diego Marriott La Jolla, Dec 29, 2026 to Jan 1, 2027; Love and Lust Las Vegas Super Bowl Weekend, Ahern Luxury Boutique Hotel, Feb 11 to 14, 2027; Dirty Vegas 2027, Ahern Luxury Boutique Hotel, Jun 17 to 20, 2027
• The Suite Life, Sacramento, CA: Rock Out bi and bi-curious karaoke night Sep 25, 2026, 9 PM to 2 AM; Twisted Wonderland Tea-Quila Party and Burlesque Show Oct 3, 8 PM to 2 AM; Central Valley Vendor Fair Oct 10, 11 AM to 8 PM; Halloween Sneak Peek Oct 10, 8 PM to 2 AM; Heroes and Villains Play Party Oct 17, 8:30 PM to 2 AM; Hot Wife Pre-Halloween Friday Oct 23, 9 PM to 2 AM
• Tangerine's Dream, San Francisco Bay Area, CA: Biker Night on September 26 and 27, 2026 at the three-acre Sierra Foothills property
• Her Fantasy Party, San Francisco, CA: Sep 27, Oct 4, Oct 11, Oct 25, Nov 8, Nov 22, Dec 6, Dec 20, Dec 27, 2026; Jan 17 and Feb 7, 2027
• So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers, Southern California: Horny Halloween Oct 17, 2026; Thanks to the Veterans Nov 21, 2026; Horny Holidays Dec 5, 2026; parties start at 8 PM

Hotel Takeovers and Party Hosts in California

4 organizers run parties, hotel takeovers or private events in California rather than a fixed club. Addresses usually go out to ticket holders, and most vet guests before the first event.

Plush Parties, Palm Springs, CA and Las Vegas, NV. Plush Parties is a lifestyle event organizer that runs complete hotel takeovers in Southern California and Las Vegas. Its flagship is the annual Flesh and Fantasy Ball, a full takeover of Hotel Zoso in downtown Palm Springs.

The Suite Life, Sacramento, CA. The Suite Life Platinum is a private members-only lifestyle club in the Sacramento area of Northern California. The club describes itself as a lifestyle sanctuary rather than a party, and it runs events at its own members-only venue.

Her Fantasy Party, San Francisco, CA. Her Fantasy Party is a members-only lifestyle play party held at Twist SF, 387 Bay St in San Francisco's North Beach. It runs on select Sunday nights, every two weeks, as a collaboration between Bronze Party and Twist.

Twist, San Francisco, CA. Twist is a private swingers party at 387 Bay St in San Francisco's North Beach. It caters to lifestyle couples and single ladies, with select single gentlemen admitted on some Fridays and through the separate Her Fantasy Party on Sundays.

Resorts and Weekend Events in California

Resorts and campgrounds in California run weekend events rather than single nights. They suit a trip rather than an evening out.

• Palm Springs and the Desert: Sea Mountain, nude lifestyle spa resort, Desert Hot Springs (Palm Springs), CA: Open every day of the year; pools, spas, and the lounge run 24 hours

Before Your First California Party

A first party in California usually starts with a social night or a meet and greet, not a play night. That lets you meet the hosts and other couples before you commit to a venue with play space.

10 of the 16 venues require a membership or an application first. Apply a week ahead, since some review every profile by hand.

5 of the venues are BYOB. Bring what you plan to drink and pace it, because most problems at parties start with alcohol.

Ask before joining anyone, take a no the first time, and leave phones in the car or a locker. Hosts remove people for exactly those three things.

Three guides are worth reading together before the night. Start with what really happens at a swinger party, then swinger house parties explained and swinger club etiquette.

California Swinger Party FAQ

How do you find swinger parties in California?

Start with the 16 verified venues on this page. 8 publish regular nights and 7 list dated events on their own sites. The rest announce to members, so join or RSVP through the venue.

Are there hotel takeovers in California?

Yes. 4 organizers with a page on this site run hotel takeovers or private parties in California. Addresses go to ticket holders.

Do California swinger parties admit single men?

It differs by venue and by night. Many cap single men, require a sponsoring couple, or run couples-only nights. Each venue page states the published rule.

What does a swinger party in California cost?

Each venue publishes its own prices, and this page does not repeat them because they change often. Open the venue page for the current door fee, membership and ticket terms.

Do you have to play at a California swinger party?

No. Many guests socialize and go home. Well run venues treat that as a normal night and hosts expect first-timers to watch and talk.

How do you meet couples in California between parties?

Through the West Coast Swingers members community. A free account shows members in California and lets you message before an event.

City and Club Guides for California

• Swinger clubs near Los Angeles, CA
• Swinger clubs near San Jose, CA
• Swinger clubs near San Francisco, CA
• Swinger clubs near Long Beach, CA
• Swinger clubs near Anaheim, CA
• Swinger clubs near Riverside, CA
• Swinger clubs near Irvine, CA
• Swinger clubs near Fremont, CA
• All swinger clubs in California
• USA swinger club directory

Event listings are provided for informational purposes. Dates, hours, prices and admission policies change often, so confirm current details directly with each venue before you travel.