The Cougar's Den: Quartz Hill, CA Monthly Lifestyle House Party
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official club website, including the Parties and Rules pages
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About The Cougar's Den
The Cougar's Den is a monthly lifestyle house party at a private home in Quartz Hill, California. Quartz Hill sits in the Antelope Valley, north of Los Angeles.
The hosts describe a diverse mix of lifestyle singles and couples who meet one to two times a month. The stated purpose covers socializing along with one-on-one and group play.
Tone matters more than scale here. The site describes the atmosphere as relaxed and safe, with what the hosts call a no pressure attitude.
The format is BYOB and donation based rather than membership based. Couples give $30, single men give $50, and single women attend free.
What to Expect at The Cougar's Den
This is a house rather than a club floor, so the guest count stays small and the evening runs socially. The parties page lists hours of 9 PM to 3 AM on a Saturday.
House rules are short and direct. No drugs, no means no, and no touching without asking permission first.
Phones stay away from the party. The rules ban picture taking with cell phones outright.
Guests are expected to look after the space. The hosts ask people to respect one another and to clean up after themselves.
Who Can Attend
Adults 25 and over, which is a higher bar than the 21 rule most clubs set. Couples, single women, and single men are all invited.
Single men face a cap rather than an open door. The site states that only a few are allowed at each party, and the donation for them is $50.
The hosts address single men directly in the rules. They note that they have never had problems with their single men, and that anyone involved in an incident will not be allowed back.
Single women are always free, and couples give $30. An RSVP is required before any of that applies.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | A lifestyle group of singles and couples who meet one to two times a month for socializing and for one-on-one and group play. The hosts describe a relaxed, safe atmosphere with a no pressure attitude |
|---|---|
| Location | A private home in Quartz Hill, California, in the Antelope Valley north of Los Angeles. The address is not published and goes out after an RSVP |
| Party hours | The parties page lists a Saturday party running 9 PM to 3 AM |
| Donations | Couples $30, single men $50 with only a few allowed, and single women always free |
| Who may attend | Couples, single women, and single men. Single men are capped, and the site states that only a few are allowed |
| Age requirement | Must be 25 and over, which is higher than the 21 rule most clubs publish |
| What to bring | The party is BYOB, and the hosts ask guests to bring their own condoms |
| Rules | No drugs. No means no. Do not touch without asking permission first. No picture taking with cell phones. Respect one another and clean up after yourselves |
| Single men conduct | The hosts state that they have never had problems with their single men and do not want to start. A single man involved in an incident will not be allowed at future parties |
Parties run one to two times a month on a Saturday, from 9 PM to 3 AM. The site's parties page names an upcoming Saturday April 13 without stating a year.
That listing should be treated as a pattern rather than a current date. The site carries a 2013 copyright, so confirm the next date with the hosts before making plans.
Planning a First Visit
Email the hosts to RSVP, since attendance is not open at the door and the address is not published. Ask for the next confirmed date at the same time.
Bring your own alcohol and your own condoms, and plan for a 25 and over crowd. Single men should ask early, since only a few places are available.
Leave the phone camera alone once you arrive. The rules ban cell phone photography, and the hosts enforce the single men conduct rule by exclusion.
Ask about the room and the crowd size before you commit. A house party sets a smaller guest count than a commercial club, so the hosts are the only real source.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
The Cougar's Den Member Reviews
No member reviews of The Cougar's Den are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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The Cougar's Den FAQ
Where is The Cougar's Den?
A private home in Quartz Hill, California, in the Antelope Valley. The address is not published and goes out after an RSVP.
How much does it cost?
Couples give $30 and single men give $50. Single women are always free.
What is the age requirement?
Must be 25 and over, which is higher than the 21 rule most clubs publish.
Can single men attend?
Yes, but only a few are allowed at each party. The hosts state that a single man involved in an incident will not be allowed back.
Is there a bar?
No. The party is BYOB, and the hosts ask guests to bring their own condoms.
Are photos allowed?
No. The rules ban picture taking with cell phones.
How often are the parties?
One to two times a month on a Saturday, running 9 PM to 3 AM. Confirm the next date with the hosts, since the site's listing gives a day and month without a year.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed thecougarsden.info on September 21, 2026, including the home page and the Parties and Rules pages. The format, location area, party hours, donation amounts, age requirement, BYOB rule, and house rules come from those pages. The site carries a 2013 copyright and its party listing names a Saturday April 13 without a year. Confirm the date with the hosts. The street address is not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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