Her Fantasy Party: San Francisco, CA Sunday Lifestyle Play Party
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official party website and calendar
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About Her Fantasy Party
Her Fantasy Party is a members-only lifestyle play party held at Twist SF, 387 Bay St in San Francisco's North Beach. It runs on select Sunday nights, every two weeks, as a collaboration between Bronze Party and Twist.
The party is designed, in its own words, for women first. The stated audience is couples exploring together, single women playing on their own terms, and single men learning to read the room.
Her Fantasy Party matters for single men because it is one of the only Twist SF nights that admits them. Regular Twist Saturdays are couples only.
What to Expect at Her Fantasy Party
Doors open at 10 PM and the first hour is social: club music, mingling, and meeting people on the dance floor. By about 11:30 PM the play areas get busy, and the party ends at 3 AM.
Twist SF supplies the setting: a DJ dance floor, intimate lounges, multiple play areas, secure lockers, and a BYOB bar with mixers provided. Guests arrive in lingerie, themed, or sexy attire and move to lingerie, towels, or less once play opens. Street clothing is not allowed in the play zone.
Themes rotate through the calendar: Sexy Schoolgirl on September 27, Autumn Kink on October 4, and Halloween on October 25. Hotwives nights fall on October 11 and November 8, followed by holiday parties through December 2026.
Who Can Attend
Couples, single women, and single men are all welcome, along with hotwife and stag dynamics, cuckold men, poly and ENM people, kinksters, and first-timers. The party is 21 and over and members only.
The FAQ says walk-ups are welcome, so single men do not need a prior invitation for Her Fantasy Party nights. The site describes its single men as vetted members of the lifestyle community.
The community describes itself as consent-driven and low pressure, and says many regulars came alone the first time. Newcomers are named directly as welcome.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Members-only lifestyle play party, a collaboration between Bronze Party and Twist SF, built around women and couples setting the tone |
|---|---|
| Venue | Twist SF, 387 Bay St, San Francisco, CA 94133, North Beach; free street parking or rideshare |
| Schedule | Select Sundays every two weeks; doors 10 PM, action typically underway by 11:30 PM, party ends 3 AM |
| Upcoming dates | Sep 27, Oct 4, Oct 11, Oct 25, Nov 8, Nov 22, Dec 6, Dec 20, Dec 27, 2026; Jan 17 and Feb 7, 2027 |
| Who attends | Couples, hotwives and stags, cuckold men, single women, poly and ENM, kinksters, and newcomers |
| Single men | Admitted; walk-ups welcome per the FAQ; vetted single men from the lifestyle community |
| Admission prices | NOT PUBLISHED on the public page; tickets sold per event on the site |
| Dress code | Lingerie, themed, or sexy attire from the start; lingerie, towels, or less once play areas open; no street clothing in the play zone |
| Bar policy | BYOB; venue provides mixers; coat check and lockers hold bottles and belongings |
| Age | 21 and over |
Parties fall every other Sunday. Fall 2026 dates are September 27, October 4, 11, and 25, and November 8 and 22. December brings the 6th, 20th, and 27th. A three-day weekend party on January 17, 2027 and a Valentine's party on February 7, 2027 follow.
Each event has its own RSVP and ticket link on the calendar. Prices are not published on the public page.
Planning a First Visit
Sign up on herfantasyparty.com, buy a ticket for the next Sunday, and arrive after 10 PM at 387 Bay St. Bring a bottle for the BYOB bar and an outfit that fits the theme or the lingerie standard.
Free street parking is available around the venue, and the party recommends rideshare. Read our Twist listing for the venue layout, lockers, and coat check.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Her Fantasy Party Member Reviews
No member reviews of Her Fantasy Party are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Her Fantasy Party FAQ
Is Her Fantasy Party a swingers club?
No. It is a private lifestyle play party held on select Sunday nights at Twist SF, presented by Bronze Party and Twist. The party's own FAQ makes the same distinction.
Can single men attend Her Fantasy Party?
Yes. It is one of the only Twist SF nights that admits single men, and the FAQ says walk-ups are welcome.
When and where is it?
Select Sundays every two weeks at Twist SF, 387 Bay St in North Beach, San Francisco, from 10 PM to 3 AM.
What is the dress code?
Sexy, themed, or lingerie attire from the start. Once the play areas open around 11:30 PM, guests change to lingerie, towels, or less; street clothing is not permitted in the play zone.
Is there a bar?
The party is BYOB. Twist provides mixers, soda, juice, sparkling water, and ice, and coat check and lockers hold your bottle.
How much are tickets?
Prices are not published on the public page reviewed on September 20, 2026. Each event on the calendar has its own ticket link.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed herfantasyparty.com on September 20, 2026, including the calendar, About the Party, The Venue, and FAQ sections. Dates, hours, venue, audience, dress code, BYOB policy, and age come from those sections. Prices were not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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