So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers: Southern California Size-Positive Party Group
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official group website and party list
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official group website and party list · Report outdated information
About So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers
So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers is a private party group in Southern California. It serves plus-size, thick, and BBW women and the people who admire them. The group says it has been around for 19 to 20 years and hosts about 16 parties a year.
Parties are small themed gatherings rather than club nights. The site describes a drama-free environment that welcomes lifestyle veterans and newcomers alike. Guests are asked to arrive with an open mind and a respectful attitude.
The party archive on the site runs back to 2013 and shows a steady monthly rhythm. Pervy St. Patty's lands in March, Kinko de Mayo in May, and Play in Lingerie in June. Groovy Love Lounge, Horny Halloween, and a veterans party fill September through November.
What to Expect at So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers
Each party has a theme and starts at 8 PM. Recent 2026 dates included Groovy Love Lounge on September 19 and Hotter Than Hell on August 29. An Indoor Beach Party ran August 15 and Play in Lingerie on June 20.
Guest testimonials on the site describe hotel-room settings dressed for the theme and food and treats from the hostess. Several say she works to make first-timers comfortable. Those are guest statements, not independently verified.
The group states it is for people who want small gatherings and play with whomever they feel comfortable with, in a safe environment.
Who Can Attend
Couples, single women, and single men attend. The group caps single men at the number of single women at each party so the room stays balanced.
Sign up on the site and join the mailing list for party announcements. The site also runs a live chat room for questions.
The public pages do not state a minimum age or admission prices. Ask through the contact form before your first party.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Small themed gatherings, roughly monthly, described by the group as a fun, safe, drama-free environment for BBWs and their friends |
|---|---|
| Where | Southern California; the site lists 12 locations used over the years, with each party's location released to registered guests |
| Upcoming parties | Horny Halloween Oct 17, 2026; Thanks to the Veterans Nov 21, 2026; Horny Holidays Dec 5, 2026; parties start at 8 PM |
| History | Active 20 years per the site; 1,675 registered users; about 16 parties per year; 20th anniversary party held Oct 5, 2024 |
| Single men | Only as many single men as single women at each party |
| Admission prices | NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages |
| Age | NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages |
| Bar policy | NOT PUBLISHED; testimonials mention jello shots and food provided by the hostess |
| Contact | Contact form and live chat room on the site |
The next three dates are October 17, November 21, and December 5, 2026, all Saturdays at 8 PM. The group typically holds one or two parties a month.
Party locations rotate; the site counts 12 locations over its history and gives the address to registered guests.
Planning a First Visit
Sign up on bbwswingers.party, join the mailing list, and RSVP for the next themed Saturday. Dress for the theme; the archive shows lingerie, toga, pajama, and costume nights.
Single men should expect a waitlist when single women are fewer, since the group keeps the numbers equal.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers Member Reviews
No member reviews of So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers FAQ
Is this a club?
No. So Cal BBW Swingers and Admirers is a party group that hosts small themed gatherings at rotating Southern California locations.
Who is it for?
Plus-size, thick, and BBW women and their admirers in the lifestyle, including couples, single women, and single men.
Can single men attend?
Yes, in equal number to single women at each party. Expect limited spots.
When is the next party?
Horny Halloween on October 17, 2026, then Thanks to the Veterans on November 21 and Horny Holidays on December 5, all at 8 PM.
How long has the group been running?
The site says 19 years in its About text and 20 years in its stats, and it held a 20th anniversary party in October 2024.
How much does it cost?
Prices are not published on the public pages reviewed on September 20, 2026. Sign up on the site for party details.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed bbwswingers.party on September 20, 2026, including the About, Parties, Testimonials, and FAQ sections. Party dates, the single-men policy, the group's history, and its stats come from those pages. Testimonials are guest statements and were not verified. Prices and age were not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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