Birth Control and the Lifestyle: Options Couples Use
A calm guide to pregnancy prevention for couples who play with others: method types, partner talks, broken condom plans and why a clinician helps you choose.
Lifestyle Guides (Page 2)
Every guide on West Coast Swingers, newest first. 260 articles by Alex and Lisa on the swinger lifestyle, ENM, hotwife dynamics, clubs, travel, and gear.
Swinging in Your 30s, 40s and 50s: How It Changes
How the swinger lifestyle tends to differ for couples in their 30s, 40s and 50s, from time and confidence to energy, communication and choosing events.
Swinger Meet and Greets: How to Work the Room
Learn what a swinger meet and greet is, what happens on arrival, how to start conversations as a couple, and how to exchange details and follow up safely.
Senior Swingers: Getting Started After 60
A calm, judgment free guide for couples entering the swinger lifestyle in their 60s and beyond. Health talks, welcoming venues, pacing and privacy.
Off-Premise vs On-Premise Swinger Clubs Explained
Learn the difference between on-premise and off-premise swinger clubs, what each looks like inside, typical entry rules, and how to pick the right format.
My Wife Wants an Open Marriage and I Do Not
Your wife asked and you did not want this. What she may mean, what to ask her, how to say no clearly, and why agreeing under pressure is the worst outcome.
Mismatched Libido: How Swinger Couples Handle It
One partner wants the lifestyle, or more of it, than the other. Learn why desire gaps are normal and how couples set a pace that keeps the relationship first.
How to Introduce Your Wife to Hotwifing
Introducing your wife to hotwifing takes one honest conversation, not a campaign. What draws her to the idea, how to raise it once, and how to handle a no.
I Want My Wife to Date Other Men
Wanting your wife to date other men has a name. What hotwifing, swinging and open marriage involve, and what to work out before you say anything to her.
50 Hotwife Dares and Challenges for Couples
50 hotwife dares and challenges in five rounds, from a confident first hello to the bold round. Ground rules, a round picker, debrief questions and a card game.
Bisexual vs Pansexual in the Lifestyle
Learn what bisexual and pansexual mean in the lifestyle, how each label shows up on profiles and at clubs, and what couples should agree before playing.
Bisexual Swingers: Clubs, Profiles and Play
A judgment free guide for bisexual swingers and bi-friendly couples on profiles, reading a venue, rules for same-sex play and finding bi-positive events.
Swinger Travel, Resorts & Cruises: The Complete Guide to Adults-Only and Clothing-Optional
The complete guide to swinger travel, resorts, and cruises. Learn what to expect, rules, safety tips, and how couples travel the lifestyle.
Wisconsin Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Wisconsin: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 3 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.
Washington Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Washington: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 4 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.
Virginia Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Virginia: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 4 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.
Utah Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Utah: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 1 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.
Texas Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Texas: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 8 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.
Tennessee Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Tennessee: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 4 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.
South Carolina Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in South Carolina: club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 3 verified venues, with schedules from each venue's own site.
Rhode Island Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Rhode Island: club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 2 verified venues, with schedules from each venue's own site.
Pennsylvania Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Pennsylvania: club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 9 verified venues, with schedules from each venue's own site.
Oregon Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Oregon: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 2 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.
Oklahoma Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
Swinger parties in Oklahoma: recurring club nights, dated events and hotel takeovers from 3 verified venues, with schedules taken from each venue's own site.