Washington Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events

Washington has 4 verified lifestyle venues with a page on this site: 2 on-premise clubs and 2 party hosts.

0 of them publish regular party nights or opening hours, and 3 list dated events on their own websites.

This page gathers those schedules in one place. Every line comes from the venue's own site as read on the date shown on its page, and nothing here is taken from third-party calendars.

Dates move and nights get cancelled. Treat this as the starting list, then confirm with the venue before you book a hotel or drive across the state.

Recurring Party Nights in Washington

No venue in Washington publishes a fixed weekly night or opening hours on its public pages. Schedules go out to members and ticket holders, so the venue pages below explain how to get on each list.

Upcoming Dated Events in Washington

Dated events listed on venue sites at the time of review, by venue. The venue page carries the full detail and the ticket link.

• Pleasure Bound Studios, Olympia, WA: Sep 22 and Oct 6 virtual informational meetings on Zoom; Sep 23 Dominant's Roundtable and South Sound Submissives at the studio; Sep 24 meet and greet at Katsu Burger in Lacey; Sep 26 BDSM Play Party, 8 PM to midnight
• Couples' Cupid, Snohomish County (Seattle), WA: November 5 to 8, 2026, three nights and four days at a 4-star hotel 20 minutes north of Seattle in Snohomish County; the group calls it the largest lifestyle Halloween event on the West Coast and says it sells out every year
• Friends of Ellis, Spokane, WA: Music, dancing, social spaces and late-night momentum. No meet and greet is required first

Hotel Takeovers and Party Hosts in Washington

2 organizers run parties, hotel takeovers or private events in Washington rather than a fixed club. Addresses usually go out to ticket holders, and most vet guests before the first event.

Pleasure Bound Studios, Olympia, WA. Pleasure Bound Studios is a vetted kink and BDSM community in Olympia, Washington. Its mission is support and education for people in the alternative, BDSM, fetish, and leather lifestyles.

Couples' Cupid, Snohomish County (Seattle), WA. Couples' Cupid is a Washington lifestyle group founded by couples who were tired of fakes and scams on ad sites. For about 12 years it has hosted events for couples and select single women from across the Pacific Northwest.

Resorts and Weekend Events in Washington

No lifestyle resort or campground in Washington has a page on this site yet. For weekend trips, the travel, resorts and cruises guide and the lifestyle-friendly campgrounds guide cover the options couples travel for.

Before Your First Washington Party

A first party in Washington usually starts with a social night or a meet and greet, not a play night. That lets you meet the hosts and other couples before you commit to a venue with play space.

3 of the 4 venues require a membership or an application first. Apply a week ahead, since some review every profile by hand.

2 of the venues are BYOB. Bring what you plan to drink and pace it, because most problems at parties start with alcohol.

Ask before joining anyone, take a no the first time, and leave phones in the car or a locker. Hosts remove people for exactly those three things.

Three guides are worth reading together before the night. Start with what really happens at a swinger party, then swinger house parties explained and swinger club etiquette.

Washington Swinger Party FAQ

How do you find swinger parties in Washington?

Start with the 4 verified venues on this page. 0 publish regular nights and 3 list dated events on their own sites. The rest announce to members, so join or RSVP through the venue.

Are there hotel takeovers in Washington?

Yes. 2 organizers with a page on this site run hotel takeovers or private parties in Washington. Addresses go to ticket holders.

Do Washington swinger parties admit single men?

It differs by venue and by night. Many cap single men, require a sponsoring couple, or run couples-only nights. Each venue page states the published rule.

What does a swinger party in Washington cost?

Each venue publishes its own prices, and this page does not repeat them because they change often. Open the venue page for the current door fee, membership and ticket terms.

Do you have to play at a Washington swinger party?

No. Many guests socialize and go home. Well run venues treat that as a normal night and hosts expect first-timers to watch and talk.

How do you meet couples in Washington between parties?

Through the West Coast Swingers members community. A free account shows members in Washington and lets you message before an event.

City and Club Guides for Washington

• Swinger clubs near Seattle, WA
• Swinger clubs near Kent, WA
• Swinger clubs near Bremerton, WA
• All swinger clubs in Washington
• USA swinger club directory

Event listings are provided for informational purposes. Dates, hours, prices and admission policies change often, so confirm current details directly with each venue before you travel.