The Office Social: Chicago South Suburbs, IL ENM Bar Socials and Private Play Parties
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official club website, rules page, and event listings
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official club website, rules page, and event listings · Report outdated information
About The Office Social
The Office Social is an ethical non-monogamy social club serving Chicago and its south suburbs. Its tagline is connection, intimacy, education, and community, and it runs two kinds of events.
Poly Night is a public social at The Linger Martini Bar in Oak Forest, open to polyamorous, open, swinger, single, and curious people. The private parties are overnight, on-premise events at south suburban locations, such as the Freaks and Geeks indoor pool party on September 26, 2026.
The rules page says on-premise play is allowed at club events and that everyone is welcome regardless of gender, orientation, or body type.
What to Expect at The Office Social
Poly Night runs Monday evenings from 8 PM to 1 AM at the bar. Guests pick a wristband color for their relationship dynamic, from solo poly to swingers, and the club stresses that a wristband signals intent, not consent. Paid members get in free.
The private parties are a different night. Freaks and Geeks on September 26 runs 8 PM to 5 AM at a private location near Crete. The indoor pool is open until midnight, with the hot tub after. Doors close at 1 AM, guests park at a shuttle lot, and the party is BYOB.
Costumes are part of the deal at themed parties. The club asks guests to arrive in character, clean up after themselves, and bring a swimsuit, towel, change of clothes, and toiletries for the overnight.
Who Can Attend
The rules say everyone is welcome regardless of gender, orientation, or body type. Poly Night is explicitly for people who are not poly too, including swingers, singles, and the curious.
Couples arrive and depart together at club events. Single ladies get explicit protection in the rules, and harassment can cost a couple its membership.
Prices are not published without a login. Ticket questions go by text or call to 312-448-8111.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Ethical non-monogamy social club in Chicago built on connection, intimacy, education, and community; the rules page states on-premise play is allowed at its events |
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| Poly Night | Public social for polyamorous, ENM, open, swinger, single, and curious people at The Linger Martini Bar, 4142 W 167th St, Oak Forest, IL 60452; Monday nights 8 PM to 1 AM; paid members free |
| Upcoming | Sep 21, 2026: Poly Night Rep Your Team End of the Summer Bash; Sep 26: Freaks and Geeks Indoor Pool Party, 8 PM to 5 AM, private south suburban location near Crete; Oct 5: Chicken and Porn Self Pleasure Night at The Linger, 8 PM to 1 AM; Oct 12: Mix and Mingle for the Singles at Park Manor, Chicago |
| Freaks and Geeks | Overnight private pool party; indoor pool open 8 PM to midnight only, hot tub after; doors close at 1 AM with no exceptions; shuttle parking required with no parking at the property; BYOB; costume theme mandatory |
| Wristbands | Poly Night wristband colors signal relationship dynamic: yellow solo poly, green single and looking, pink open relationship, red open couple, blue couples seeking women, orange swingers; the club says a wristband is not consent |
| Rules | Couples arrive and depart together; no means no, ask before touching; whisper or stay silent in play areas; no cameras; no drugs or prostitution; no refunds; overly intoxicated guests removed; everyone welcome regardless of gender, orientation, or body type |
| Prices | NOT PUBLISHED without login; ticket questions by text or call to 312-448-8111 |
| Bar policy | Private parties are BYOB; Poly Night drinks come from the bar |
| Contact | 312-448-8111; info@theofficeent.com |
September 21, 2026: Poly Night End of the Summer Bash, 8 PM to 1 AM, Oak Forest. September 26: Freaks and Geeks Indoor Pool Party, 8 PM to 5 AM, near Crete. October 5: Self Pleasure Night, 8 PM to 1 AM, Oak Forest. October 12: Mix and Mingle for the Singles, Chicago.
The events calendar on the site lists new dates as they are added.
Planning a First Visit
Start with a Poly Night at The Linger Martini Bar. Pick a wristband, buy your own drinks, and meet people without the pressure of a play party. Text 312-448-8111 with ticket questions.
For a private party, buy a ticket in advance and plan for shuttle parking or a rideshare. Bring your own bottle and arrive before the 1 AM door close.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
The Office Social Member Reviews
No member reviews of The Office Social are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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The Office Social FAQ
Is The Office Social on-premise?
Its private parties are. The rules page says on-premise play is allowed, and the private events run overnight. Poly Night at the bar is social only.
Can single men attend The Office Social?
The rules say everyone is welcome regardless of gender, orientation, or body type, and Poly Night has a wristband for single and looking. Ask the club about singles at private parties.
When is the next event?
Poly Night on September 21, 2026 in Oak Forest, then the Freaks and Geeks pool party on September 26 near Crete.
How much does it cost?
Prices are not published without a login. Paid members attend Poly Night free. Text or call 312-448-8111 for ticket questions.
Is it BYOB?
Private parties are BYOB. Poly Night is at a martini bar, so you buy drinks there.
Where are the private parties?
At private south suburban locations. The September pool party is near Crete with shuttle parking; the address goes to confirmed ticket holders.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed members.theofficeent.com on September 20, 2026, including the home page, Rules, and the Poly Night and Freaks and Geeks event listings. Event dates, venues, hours, wristband system, rules, BYOB policy, and contact details come from those pages. Prices are behind the member login. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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