Friends Night Out: Aurora (Chicago West Suburbs), IL BYOB Barn Parties with Upstairs Play
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official organizer website, events page, venue page, and ticket pages
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About Friends Night Out
Friends Night Out is a lifestyle event organizer in Aurora, Illinois, in Chicago's western suburbs. It rents a two-level venue it calls The Barn, a 2,030 square foot space styled like a warm pub. The Barn sits on Jericho Road near I-88 and Orchard Road.
Every event is BYOB with mixers provided. The calendar mixes monthly themed Night Out parties, a Glow Party, and Sports Sundays with NFL games. A three-day Halloween weekend runs October 30 to November 1, 2026.
The venue page is candid that this is not a permanent swinger club. FNO rents the space for select gatherings, and what happens upstairs is treated like private activity in a hotel room.
What to Expect at Friends Night Out
The Barn holds up to 100 guests with parking for about 50 cars. Downstairs is the social floor with modern sound, video, and lighting. Upstairs is the WildRumpus Room, which opens on set nights with a $20 wristband and play equipment on hand.
The Halloween weekend shows the range. Friday, October 30 is a costume social with karaoke, games, and photos from 9 PM. Saturday, October 31 is the main swinger event with upstairs access included and downstairs play after midnight, once the doors lock.
Sunday, November 1 is FNO Sports from 11:30 AM with NFL games on multiple screens, FNO providing the proteins, and members bringing a dish. Monthly Night Out parties follow with Corsets and Garters on November 21 and Naughty Elves on December 19.
Who Can Attend
Couples, single ladies, and throuples buy tickets on the site. The organizers say single ladies are valued and can ask staff for help or an escort to their car at any time.
Single gentlemen have been welcome, but starting with the Halloween events on October 30 and 31, 2026 they must hold a personal invitation. Men apply for the invite list on the site and should not show up without one.
Halloween Friday costs $30 per couple, $20 for single ladies, $40 for single guys, and $50 for throuples. Saturday is $60 per couple, $30 single ladies, $80 single gentlemen, and $100 throuples. Sunday is $10 per couple, free for single ladies, and $20 for single guys.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Lifestyle event organizer running themed socials and play nights at a rented barn venue in Aurora, Illinois; the venue page says it is not a permanent swinger club |
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| Venue | The TSIN Barn, a 2,030 square foot two-level space styled like a pub, on Jericho Road near I-88 and Orchard Road; capacity 100, parking for about 50 cars, two restrooms, exterior cameras |
| Upcoming | Sep 26, 2026, 9 PM to 2 AM: The Underground Presents Glow Party; Sep 27, 11:30 AM to 5 PM: FNO Sports Sunday; Oct 30 to Nov 1: FNO Halloween Weekend; Nov 21: Corsets and Garters Night Out; Dec 19: Naughty Elves Night Out |
| Halloween Friday | Oct 30, 9 PM: costume social with karaoke, games, and photos; $30 per couple, $50 throuples, $40 single guys, $20 single ladies; WildRumpus Room opens 11 PM for $20 per person |
| Halloween Saturday | Oct 31: swinger event with WildRumpus Room access included and downstairs play after midnight when doors lock; arrive by 11:30 PM; $60 per couple, $30 single ladies, $80 single gentlemen, $100 throuples |
| Halloween Sunday | Nov 1 from 11:30 AM: FNO Sports at the Barn with NFL games and food; $10 per couple, free single ladies, $20 single guys; upstairs after halftime with a $20 wristband |
| Hotel | Partner hotel at a flat $150 per night off I-88 and Orchard Road, a 7 minute ride from the Barn; top floor reserved for Halloween guests who book by September 28; room bookings earn free or half-price entry |
| Who | Couples, single ladies, and throuples buy tickets on the site; single gentlemen must hold a personal invitation from October 30, 2026 onward |
| Bar policy | BYOB with mixers provided; label your bottle |
| Dress | Themes are optional, but guests not in theme should dress to impress |
| Payment | Advance payment only for Halloween nights; no tickets at the door and no refunds |
September 26, 2026, 9 PM to 2 AM: The Underground Presents Glow Party. September 27, 11:30 AM to 5 PM: FNO Sports Sunday. October 30 to November 1: FNO Halloween Weekend. November 21: Corsets and Garters Night Out. December 19: Naughty Elves Night Out.
Halloween nights require advance payment with no door tickets and no refunds. Arrive by 11:30 PM on Saturday before the doors lock.
Planning a First Visit
Pick a themed Night Out or the Halloween Friday social, buy tickets on the site, and bring your own bottle with your name on it. Dress to the theme or dress to impress.
For Halloween, book the partner hotel at $150 per night by September 28 to land on the reserved top floor. A room booking makes Friday entry free and cuts Saturday tickets in half.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Friends Night Out Member Reviews
No member reviews of Friends Night Out are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
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Friends Night Out FAQ
Is Friends Night Out an on-premise club?
Not a permanent one. FNO rents The Barn in Aurora for its events. The upstairs WildRumpus Room opens for play on set nights, and Halloween Saturday adds downstairs play after midnight.
How much does Friends Night Out cost?
Halloween Saturday is $60 per couple, $30 for single ladies, and $80 for single gentlemen. Friday is $30 per couple. Monthly Night Out tickets are sold on the site by member type.
Can single men attend Friends Night Out?
Only by invitation starting October 30, 2026. Apply for the invite list on the site and wait for a personal invitation by email.
Is it BYOB?
Yes. Every event is BYOB, and FNO provides mixers.
Where is The Barn?
On Jericho Road in Aurora, Illinois, near I-88 and Orchard Road. The exact address comes with your ticket.
Is there a hotel?
Yes. A partner hotel off I-88 and Orchard Road offers a flat $150 per night, about 7 minutes from the Barn.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed friendsnightout.com on September 20, 2026, including the home page, FNO Events, Venue, Halloween Weekend, and ticket pages. Event dates, prices, the single-men policy, BYOB policy, hotel deal, and venue details come from those pages. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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