New York Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events

New York has 13 verified lifestyle venues with a page on this site: 9 on-premise clubs, 1 party host and 3 social venues.

5 of them publish regular party nights or opening hours, and 5 list dated events on their own websites.

This page gathers those schedules in one place. Every line comes from the venue's own site as read on the date shown on its page, and nothing here is taken from third-party calendars.

Dates move and nights get cancelled. Treat this as the starting list, then confirm with the venue before you book a hotel or drive across the state.

Recurring Party Nights in New York

Venues in New York that publish a weekly pattern or opening hours, listed by city.

Upcoming Dated Events in New York

Dated events listed on venue sites at the time of review, by venue. The venue page carries the full detail and the ticket link.

• Fantasy Connections Playground Parties, City not published: The events section carries flyer images rather than text, so no date, venue or price can be read from the page
• SatinSheetDreams, Latham (Albany), NY: Detention After Dark 2026 and Booty or Boo Halloween Party 2026, both in Latham NY, on September 19 and November 7, 2026
• My Frisky Business, Long Island, NY: A Camo Party is listed for November 21 to 22, 2026 with details still to come
• ShareNation Events, Northeast (Albany NY base): Fetish Night, House of Dragons, Oct 30, 2026, 3 PM to 4 AM, Hampton NH; New England Pumpkin Smash BYOB takeover, Oct 31, 2026, 11:30 AM to 4 AM, Hampton NH; Cats and Bats fantasy and fetish night, Nov 6, 2026, 7 PM to 4 AM, Holiday Inn Parsippany NJ; Monster Smash Weekend, Nov 6 to 8, 2026, Holiday Inn Parsippany NJ; The Intention Recalibration Retreat, Oct 3 to 10, 2027, Tulum, Mexico
• Syracuse Speak Easy, Syracuse, NY: Nightmare on Speakeasy Street, Oct 31, 8:30 PM to 4 AM; Country Night, Whiskey, Women and Pour Decisions with a stud auction, Nov 14, 8 PM to 4 AM; Speakeasy Christmas, Mistletoe and Misbehavin', Dec 5, 8:30 PM to 4 AM; Speakeasy Casino Royale New Year's Eve, Dec 31, 7 PM to 4 AM

Hotel Takeovers and Party Hosts in New York

1 organizer runs parties, hotel takeovers or private events in New York rather than a fixed club. Addresses usually go out to ticket holders, and most vet guests before the first event.

Temptations NYC, New York, NY. Temptations NYC is an on-premise BYOB lifestyle venue in Manhattan. It runs themed swinger parties across most nights of the week rather than on a single weekend slot.

Resorts and Weekend Events in New York

No lifestyle resort or campground in New York has a page on this site yet. For weekend trips, the travel, resorts and cruises guide and the lifestyle-friendly campgrounds guide cover the options couples travel for.

Before Your First New York Party

A first party in New York usually starts with a social night or a meet and greet, not a play night. That lets you meet the hosts and other couples before you commit to a venue with play space.

7 of the 13 venues require a membership or an application first. Apply a week ahead, since some review every profile by hand.

8 of the venues are BYOB. Bring what you plan to drink and pace it, because most problems at parties start with alcohol.

Ask before joining anyone, take a no the first time, and leave phones in the car or a locker. Hosts remove people for exactly those three things.

Three guides are worth reading together before the night. Start with what really happens at a swinger party, then swinger house parties explained and swinger club etiquette.

New York Swinger Party FAQ

How do you find swinger parties in New York?

Start with the 13 verified venues on this page. 5 publish regular nights and 5 list dated events on their own sites. The rest announce to members, so join or RSVP through the venue.

Are there hotel takeovers in New York?

Yes. 1 organizer with a page on this site runs hotel takeovers or private parties in New York. Addresses go to ticket holders.

Do New York swinger parties admit single men?

It differs by venue and by night. Many cap single men, require a sponsoring couple, or run couples-only nights. Each venue page states the published rule.

What does a swinger party in New York cost?

Each venue publishes its own prices, and this page does not repeat them because they change often. Open the venue page for the current door fee, membership and ticket terms.

Do you have to play at a New York swinger party?

No. Many guests socialize and go home. Well run venues treat that as a normal night and hosts expect first-timers to watch and talk.

How do you meet couples in New York between parties?

Through the West Coast Swingers members community. A free account shows members in New York and lets you message before an event.

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Event listings are provided for informational purposes. Dates, hours, prices and admission policies change often, so confirm current details directly with each venue before you travel.