Caligula NY: Astoria (Queens), NY Private On-Premise Club
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official club website, rules, FAQ, and events pages
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About Caligula NY
Caligula New York is a private, upscale on-premise social club in Astoria, Queens, minutes from Manhattan by car or subway. The club withholds its street address for privacy and gives it to guests who reserve.
The club serves couples, single ladies, and what it calls select single gentlemen. Couples and single ladies are welcome every night; single men are admitted only on designated nights listed on the events calendar.
Caligula describes itself as created by people in the lifestyle, for the lifestyle. It promises a no-pressure environment where guests can be as tame or as wild as they choose.
What to Expect at Caligula NY
Nights run Thursday through Sunday with themes that change weekly. The September 2026 calendar lists One Night Stand Swinger Fling Thursdays and Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Socials. It also shows a Sexy School Girl Play Party on Friday the 25th and the Libra Couples Bash on Saturday the 26th.
The club has play areas, some of which are reserved for couples only. Single men cannot enter those areas unless a lady escorts them. Drinks are served, and the rules ask guests to drink responsibly or face removal.
The rules page includes a section on jealousy for couples new to the lifestyle. Arrive together, check in with each other, stop and talk privately if it surfaces, and leave together.
Who Can Attend
Couples and single ladies can attend any night. Single gentlemen attend only on designated nights. The rules remind them that some couples enjoy their company and others do not, so rejection is not personal.
First-time guests must make a reservation through the RSVP page. Members are encouraged to reserve but may attend without one if they pay the entrance fee. Pricing is set per event and per promoter, so the events page is the reference.
No means no at all times, harassment of any kind brings removal, and drugs bring immediate removal with no exceptions.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Private upscale on-premise social club created by people in the lifestyle; play areas include couples-only sections |
|---|---|
| Location | Astoria, NY 11105, minutes from Manhattan by car or subway, near major highways, with legal street parking; exact address released with a reservation |
| Nights | Thursday through Sunday; September 2026 calendar shows One Night Stand Swinger Fling Thursdays, a Sexy School Girl Play Party Friday Sep 25, the Libra Couples Bash Saturday Sep 26, and Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Socials |
| Admission prices | Vary by event and promoter; each event listing carries its own price |
| Reservations | Required for first-time guests through the RSVP page; members may attend without one if they pay the entrance fee |
| Single men | Select designated nights only; approach couples and single ladies politely and accept a no |
| Couples-only play areas | Reserved for couples; single men may not enter unless escorted by a lady |
| Dress code | Weekends dress to impress, midweek casual but neat; no high-top sneakers, work boots, sweats, running suits, baseball caps, bandanas, or do-rags; collared shirts preferred for men; lingerie and fetish wear welcome |
| Drugs | Zero tolerance; immediate removal |
| Contact | (516) 301-7800; RSVP and contact forms on the site |
The club is open Thursday through Sunday with hours that vary by event. Recent listings include Sinful Sunday Night Swinger Socials on September 20 and 27 and One Night Stand Thursdays on September 24 and October 1. A Friday play party runs September 25 and a Saturday couples bash on September 26, 2026.
Check each event on caligulany.com for its hours, price, and whether single men are admitted that night.
Planning a First Visit
Pick an event on the calendar and submit the RSVP form; the club sends the address after you reserve. Read the rules page first, including the dress code, which is dress to impress on weekends and casual but neat midweek.
Leave the baseball cap and sweats at home, bring photo ID, and plan to arrive and leave with your partner. Call (516) 301-7800 with questions.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Caligula NY Member Reviews
No member reviews of Caligula NY are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Caligula NY FAQ
Is Caligula New York an on-premise club?
Yes. The club describes itself as an on-premise swinger club with play areas, including sections reserved for couples only.
Where is Caligula NYC?
In Astoria, Queens, zip code 11105, minutes from Manhattan. The club gives the exact address only to guests who make a reservation.
Can single men attend?
Only on select designated nights. Single men are never allowed in the couples-only play areas unless a lady escorts them.
Do I need a reservation?
First-time guests must reserve through the RSVP page. Members are encouraged to reserve but can attend without one if they pay the entrance fee.
How much does it cost?
Admission varies by event and promoter. Each listing on the events page shows its own price.
What nights is it open?
Thursday through Sunday, with hours set per event.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed caligulany.com on September 20, 2026, including the About Us, Rules, FAQ, and Events pages. The neighborhood, phone, nights, reservation policy, single-men policy, dress code, and event names come from those pages. Prices are set per event and are not stated here. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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