New London, CT Swinger Clubs and Lifestyle Parties

New London has 4 verified lifestyle venues within 50 miles: 4 on-premise clubs.

The nearest is Leisure Time Club, on-premise BYOB club, saturdays in Hartford, about 41 miles from the city center.

Every venue below has its own page on this site. Each one was checked against the club's own website, and the details here come from those pages, not from third-party directories.

None of the 4 is inside New London itself. All of them sit in surrounding towns within about an hour's drive.

Clubs and Parties Near New London

4 venues sit within 50 miles of New London. Membership, admission and single-guest rules differ at every one, so open the venue page before you plan a night.

Leisure Time Club. Leisure Time Club is a private members-only on-premise swingers club at 355 Zion Street in Hartford, Connecticut. It is in its 49th year and calls itself the longest running swingers club in the United States.

Wicked Fun Club. Wicked Fun Club is a members-only on-premise lifestyle club in Central Connecticut. Its pitch is that it is not a nightclub.

Mindbender Parties. Mindbender Parties is an event organizer rather than a fixed club. The hosts stage themed lifestyle parties at venues along the East Coast.

Party Nights Near New London

Published schedules for the venues near New London, as listed on each club's own site at the time of review. Dates and hours change, so confirm before you travel.

• Leisure Time Club: Saturdays 9 PM to 2 AM, playrooms included; once a month on a Friday, a ladies-only social; hours vary for special events; call ahead in bad weather
• Wicked Fun Club: Sep 25 Skimpy Black Dress Party; Sep 26 Simply Wicked; Oct 3 Newbie Night; Oct 9 More Than Two Night; Oct 10 Wicked Whispers; Oct 17 Saturday party; Oct 23 Dungeon After Dark; Oct 24 Newbie Night; Oct 31 A Wicked Halloween; Nov 7 Wild Western Hoedown; Nov 14 50-plus Party
• Mindbender Parties: Published events run 9pm to 2am
• Choice Social Club: Saturday evenings from 8:30pm to 2am, with the club sometimes closed on a major holiday and occasional Friday events

Resorts and Takeovers Near New London

No lifestyle resort or hotel takeover sits within 50 miles of New London. The nearest resort-style venues with a page on this site:

• H&H Social Club, Hampton, NH, about 127 miles

For resorts and cruises further afield:

• Swinger Travel, Resorts and Cruises Guide
• Lifestyle-Friendly Campgrounds
• Swinger Cruises Explained

Before Your First New London Club Night

Most first visits near New London start with a meet and greet or a social night rather than a play night. That takes the pressure off and lets you meet people before you commit to a venue.

3 of the 4 venues here require a membership or an application before your first visit. Apply a week ahead, since some review every profile by hand.

3 of the venues are BYOB, which is common at private clubs. Bring what you plan to drink and pace it, because most reported problems at clubs start with alcohol.

3 venues publish a specific rule for single men, from a nightly cap to a sponsoring couple. Single men should read that rule on the venue page before buying a ticket.

3 venues publish a dress code. Where a theme is listed for the night, it is usually enforced at the door.

Ask before joining anyone, take a no the first time, and leave phones in the car or a locker. Those three rules cover almost everything that gets people removed.

Three guides are worth reading together before the night. Start with how to choose your first swinger club, then swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. For house parties rather than clubs, swinger house parties explained covers the differences.

New London Swinger Club FAQ

How many swinger clubs are near New London?

4 verified lifestyle venues sit within 50 miles of New London: 4 on-premise clubs. Each has its own page on this site with rules and hours from the venue's website.

What is the closest swinger club to New London?

Leisure Time Club, on-premise BYOB club, saturdays in Hartford, about 41 miles from the city center. Its page lists format, membership, single-guest rules and the published schedule.

Are there swinger clubs inside New London itself?

Not with a public website that could be verified. The 4 venues on this page sit in surrounding towns within 50 miles of the city center.

Do New London swinger clubs admit single men?

3 of the 4 venues publish a rule for single men, and the rules differ. Some cap numbers per night, some require a sponsoring couple, and some run couples-only nights. Check the venue page.

Do you need a membership at swinger clubs near New London?

At 3 of the 4 venues, yes, usually by online application before the first visit. The rest sell tickets or take a door fee without a membership.

Are swinger clubs near New London BYOB?

3 of the 4 venues publish a BYOB policy. Private clubs often cannot hold a liquor licence, so guests bring their own and the club supplies mixers.

How do you meet other couples in New London outside club nights?

Through the West Coast Swingers members community. A free account shows members near New London and lets you message before an event.

Nearby Guides

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Club listings are provided for informational purposes. Operating status, event schedules, membership costs, and admission policies change often, so confirm current details directly with each venue before visiting.