Mindbender Parties: Providence, RI Traveling Lifestyle Event Organizer
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the organizer
Current Event Dates Unverified
Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the organizer · Report outdated information
About Mindbender Parties
Mindbender Parties is an event organizer rather than a fixed club. The hosts stage themed lifestyle parties at venues along the East Coast.
Both events published for 2026 land at the same Providence address, 165 Poe St. Each runs from 9pm to 2am on a Saturday.
The organizer describes the events as New England's favorite swingers lifestyle events, and lists the East Coast as the service area.
Mizzy Bender runs the events with her partner Spencer. Her profile page describes building an all inclusive and judgment free environment for the lifestyle community.
What to Expect at Mindbender Parties
Security staff meet arrivals at the door, introduce themselves, and stay available through the night. The organizer puts safety and comfort at the top of its own description.
Inside there is a DJ, a dance floor, a pole and a swing. The description centers on mixing and mingling before anything else.
A dungeon is set up for onsite play at the published events. Private and open play space are both available alongside it.
A photographer works the room, and a lifestyle boutique vends onsite. Each event carries its own theme, announced on the event page.
Who Can Attend
The public pages do not publish an age rule, a single male policy, or a couples requirement. Those questions go to the organizer directly.
The stated intent is an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where guests can be themselves without question.
Admission prices are not published either. Each event page carries an RSVP control rather than a ticket price.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | A traveling organizer that stages full thematic lifestyle events rather than operating a permanent venue |
|---|---|
| Hosts | Mizzy Bender and her partner Spencer, who describe running events up and down the East Coast |
| Published dates | Two 2026 events in Providence: October 24 and December 12, both 9pm to 2am |
| Venue | 165 Poe St, Providence, RI 02905, printed on both event pages |
| Door | Security staff greet arrivals, introduce themselves and remain available through the evening |
| Entertainment | A DJ, a dance floor, a pole and a swing |
| Play space | A dungeon set up for onsite play, with both private and open play space available |
| Onsite | A photographer works the events, and a lifestyle boutique vends onsite |
| Tone | The organizer describes an all inclusive and judgment free environment |
| RSVP | Each event page carries an RSVP control rather than a published ticket price |
| Not published | Admission prices, age rules, single policies, dress code and the bar policy do not appear on the public pages |
Two dates are published for 2026. Both run on a Saturday from 9pm to 2am at the Providence venue.
Because this is a traveling organizer, dates and venues change. Check the events page or the mailing list for anything beyond the listed dates.
Planning a First Visit
RSVP through the event page for the date you want. Prices are not posted, so confirm the cost when you RSVP.
Ask the organizer about age, single and dress rules before you go, since none of those appear on the public pages.
Contact runs through email or text only to 631-896-5315. The site states that the number takes text rather than calls.
The Providence venue at 165 Poe St is printed on both event pages, so the address is known ahead of the date.
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Mindbender Parties Member Reviews
No member reviews of Mindbender Parties are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Mindbender Parties FAQ
Is Mindbender Parties a club?
No. It is a traveling event organizer that stages themed lifestyle parties at venues along the East Coast.
Where are the parties?
Both published 2026 dates are at 165 Poe St, Providence, RI 02905.
What time do they run?
Both published events run from 9pm to 2am on a Saturday.
Is there a play space?
Yes. The event pages list a dungeon set up for onsite play, plus private and open play space.
How much does it cost?
Prices are not published. Each event page carries an RSVP control instead of a ticket price.
How do I contact them?
By email, or by text only to 631-896-5315. The site specifies text rather than calls.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed mindbenderparties.com, including its about page and both published event pages, on September 21, 2026. The traveling organizer format, the East Coast service area and the Providence venue address come from that site. So do the October 24 and December 12 dates and their 9pm to 2am hours, the security staff and the DJ. The same pages give pole and swing, the dungeon and the private and open play space and the onsite photographer and boutique. They also cover the hosts and the contact details. Admission prices, age rules, single policies, the dress code and the bar policy are not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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