Rhavens Haven: City not published Private Lifestyle Community
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the hosts
Current Event Dates Unverified
Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the hosts · Report outdated information
About Rhavens Haven
Rhavens Haven is a private lifestyle community hosted by a married couple. It runs private parties, weekend events and group travel rather than a venue.
The hosts describe themselves as everyday professionals who decided to host gatherings in a discreet, chic and fun manner.
Membership is the gate. An application with a photo gives access to invitations for private parties and social events.
The community is described as open to couples, singles and poly families, spanning the lifestyle-curious through to experienced explorers.
What to Expect at Rhavens Haven
The hosts put weight on mixing. They describe running an icebreaker or two to get guests connected, and encourage mingling throughout.
They also state their limits plainly. They guarantee a good atmosphere with like-minded adults, but never guarantee a match.
The signature event is a Deep Creek cabin weekend running Thursday to Sunday, with evening events, lounges and workshops.
That weekend includes dinner, drinks, curated activities, daytime on-site experiences, hot tub access, and optional group intimacy and play workshops.
Guests can book main house lodging on an all-inclusive basis, or take event-only access without staying over.
Group travel runs alongside the local calendar, with a Hedonism II trip in 2026 and a Caribbean cruise in 2027.
Who Can Attend
The membership form offers four categories: couple, single female, single male and poly family.
The hosts describe a community for open-minded couples, singles and poly families, from the lifestyle-curious to the experienced.
An application photo is required, which the form frames as proof that applicants are real.
The application also asks where applicants place themselves on an experience scale, from curious beginner to long-established lifestyler.
Membership cost, event prices and an age rule are not published. Those go through the hosts.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | A private, inclusive lifestyle community rather than a club, hosting gatherings, parties and travel |
|---|---|
| Hosts | A married couple who describe themselves as everyday professionals, comfortable in their skin and long in the lifestyle |
| Style | The hosts encourage mixing and mingling and run icebreakers, stating they guarantee the atmosphere but never a match |
| Membership | An application form taking member type, names for up to four people, phone, email, city and state, and an uploaded photo |
| Member types | Couple, single female, single male and poly family |
| Experience levels | The application asks applicants to place themselves on a scale from curious beginner through to long-established lifestyler |
| What membership gives | Invitations to private parties and social events |
| Values | The hosts describe a friendly, diverse, drama-free community where respect, discretion and consent come first |
| Cabin weekend | The 2026 Deep Creek cabin adventure runs Thursday to Sunday with evening events, lounges and workshops |
| Cabin inclusions | Dinner, drinks and curated activities, daytime on-site experiences, hot tub access, and optional group intimacy and play workshops |
| Booking options | Main house lodging on an all-inclusive basis, or event-only access without lodging |
| Travel | A fall Hedonism II trip in 2026 and a Caribbean cruise in 2027 |
| Contact | Phone or text 240-630-1260, or email the address published on the site |
| Not published | A home city, venue addresses, membership cost, event prices, the age rule and house rules do not appear on the public pages |
The published 2026 and 2027 calendar covers a Deep Creek cabin weekend, a fall Hedonism II trip and a Caribbean cruise.
Private parties and house parties run alongside those, with dates given to members through invitations rather than published.
Planning a First Visit
Submit the membership application with your member type, contact details, city and state, and a photo.
Ask about the membership cost and the age requirement when you apply, since neither is published.
For the cabin weekend, decide between all-inclusive main house lodging and event-only access, which are priced separately.
Contact the hosts by phone or text on 240-630-1260 if you would rather ask before applying.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Rhavens Haven Member Reviews
No member reviews of Rhavens Haven are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Rhavens Haven FAQ
Is Rhavens Haven a club?
No. It is a private membership community hosted by a married couple, running parties, weekend events and group travel.
Where is it?
NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages reviewed. No home city or venue address appears on the site.
Who can join?
Couples, single women, single men and poly families, through an application with a photo.
What does membership give?
Invitations to the hosts' private parties and social events.
What is the cabin weekend?
A Thursday to Sunday event with evening events, lounges and workshops, dinner and drinks, hot tub access and optional play workshops.
How much does it cost?
NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages reviewed.
What travel do they run?
A fall Hedonism II trip in 2026 and a Caribbean cruise in 2027.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed rhavenshaven.org, including its hosts, membership, contact and Deep Creek cabin event pages, on September 21, 2026. The private community format, the host couple's description and the mixing and icebreaker approach come from that site. So do the membership application and its member types and photo requirement, the stated values and the cabin weekend dates. The same pages give inclusions and booking options, the Hedonism II and Caribbean travel dates and the contact number. A home city, venue addresses, membership cost, event prices, the age rule and house rules are not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
Know Before You Apply
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