Secret Encounters: City not published Members-Only Private Social Club
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the club
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the club · Report outdated information
About Secret Encounters
Secret Encounters is a private social club for couples and singles in the lifestyle. Membership is required before anyone can enter.
The club describes its aim as a safe, no pressure and no obligation environment for personal exploration. Every applicant is vetted before an offer of membership.
Approval runs through a council of seven members who meet prospective members and vote collectively. A new member meet and greet is part of that process.
Events run across two kinds of space. There is a themed playhouse for house parties and a separate pool location for summer daytime events.
What to Expect at Secret Encounters
The tour page names four spaces inside the playhouse: an Intergalactic Space Station room, an Arabian Nights room, a Dungeon and a main entertainment area.
The club describes socializing and dancing alongside the play areas. Games and themed nights feature in the event descriptions.
Alcohol is brought by guests. The club provides a long list of mixers plus soda and water, and serves homemade food at events.
House rules lead on consent. The club states that only yes means yes, and that maybe, no, and not sure all mean no.
Other rules cover not camping in a room, not opening or rattling closed doors, cleaning up afterwards, grooming, and drinking responsibly.
The club reserves the right to take alcohol and car keys from anyone showing signs of excessive drinking, and to have them sit out.
Who Can Attend
Couples, single women and single men, all of whom must become members. The club defines a couple as a male and a female, or a married homosexual couple.
Everyone must be 21 or older, with no exceptions, and government issued identification is required on a first visit.
Single male numbers are limited at events. The club describes its membership as a diverse group and states that everyone is welcome.
Membership costs 25 dollars for one month or 80 dollars for a year, the same across all three categories. Event door fees are separate.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | A private social club running meet and greets, exclusive house parties and themed events |
|---|---|
| Playhouse | The tour page names an Intergalactic Space Station room, an Arabian Nights room, a Dungeon and a main entertainment space |
| Pool | Pool parties run at a separate location with a swimming pool, with an evening after party at the playhouse |
| Vetting | All applicants are vetted, attend a new member meet and greet, and are voted on by a council of seven members |
| Applications | Paper only. The application is downloaded and emailed back, and the site states there are no online applications |
| Membership fees | 25 dollars for one month or 80 dollars for a year, the same for couples, single women and single men |
| Event fees | A door fee applies per event and varies by event, on top of membership |
| Reservations | Required. Tickets can be bought online or arranged by email |
| Couples defined | The club defines a couple as a male and a female, or a married homosexual couple |
| Single men | Numbers are limited at events |
| Dress code | Dress to impress. For men, no hats, do-rags, hoodies, tank tops, uniforms, workout clothes or cutoff shorts, except on theme nights |
| Food | Homemade food at events, with appetizers and light snacks at meet and greets |
| Mixers | Coke, diet coke, sprite, ginger ale, pineapple juice, sour mix, grenadine, lime juice, cranberry juice and orange juice |
| Overnight | Rooms are available to rent for an added fee |
| Door cutoff | The pool and luau event lists no admission after 11pm |
| Charity | All money raised through the 50/50 draw is donated to a local charity |
| Not published | The city, the street address and a full dated calendar do not appear on the public pages |
A full dated calendar is not published. The events page describes recurring formats such as a pool party with a luau after party.
Meet and greet events run for prospective members as part of the approval process.
RSVP is required, and the site states that addresses are provided only after an RSVP.
Planning a First Visit
Download the membership application, fill it in and email it back. The club states plainly that it takes no online applications.
Attend a new member meet and greet and be approved by the council. Membership fees are paid onsite, and a first event can follow the same day.
Bring government issued identification, your own drinks, and payment. Only cash and Venmo are taken at the door.
Dress to impress. The published dress code rules out hats, do-rags, hoodies, tank tops, uniforms, gym clothes and cutoff shorts for men.
Bring a towel and a chair for a pool event, and ask about renting an overnight room if you want one.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Secret Encounters Member Reviews
No member reviews of Secret Encounters are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Secret Encounters FAQ
Do I have to be a member?
Yes. The club states that all couples, single men and single women must become members, and that nobody enters before membership is granted.
How much is membership?
A 25 dollar donation for one month, or 80 dollars for a year. The same amount applies to couples, single women and single men.
How does approval work?
Applicants are vetted, attend a new member meet and greet, and are voted on collectively by a council of seven members.
Can I apply online?
No. The application is downloaded from the site, filled in and emailed back. The site states there are no online applications.
Where is it?
NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages reviewed. Addresses are provided after an RSVP.
Is it BYOB?
Yes. The club provides mixers, soda, water and homemade food, and guests bring their own alcohol.
What is the age limit?
21 and over with no exceptions. Government issued identification is required on a first visit.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed secretsencounters.com, including its About Us, Tour, Events, Membership and Common Asked Questions pages, on September 21, 2026. The private club format, the vetting and council approval process, the paper application and the membership fees come from that site. So do the event door fees, the age rule, the couples definition and the limit on single men. The same pages give the dress code, the themed rooms, the pool party format and the mixers and food. They also cover the overnight rooms and the payment methods and the house rules. The city, the street address and a full dated calendar are not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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