Purgatory Dungeon: New Mexico Members-Only Kink and BDSM Venue
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the venue
Current Event Dates Unverified
Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the venue · Report outdated information
About Purgatory Dungeon
Purgatory Dungeon Studios is a members-only private kink and BDSM venue in New Mexico. Its own keywords place it in the Albuquerque and Rio Rancho area.
This is not a swinger club. The venue describes itself as a private educational space for people exploring kink, with community and education as its stated focus.
Membership is required before attending, and the site states directly that it cannot be obtained at the door on the night of an event.
The published rules are long and specific, which is the clearest picture the public site gives of how a night there runs.
What to Expect at Purgatory Dungeon
A Dungeon Monitor or Mistress is on duty. They clear restricted play types, hold authority over the floor, and take any concerns raised.
Safe words are standardized. Yellow means something needs adjusting without stopping play, and red stops all play until the situation is resolved.
Anyone using a gag or another speech-inhibiting device must agree a non-verbal safe sign with the monitor before the scene starts.
Scenes stay in designated dungeon spaces. The aftercare room is set aside, and no sex or scenes are permitted there.
Interfering with a scene is barred outright, including during preparation, cleanup and aftercare. The rule is to walk away and tell the monitor.
No alcohol or drugs are allowed, before or during. Phones and recording devices cannot come inside and can be checked at the front door.
Who Can Attend
Members only, aged 21 or over. Anyone found to be under 21, or presenting false proof of age, is removed and barred from future events.
The venue requires a completed profile and then a membership, arranged in advance rather than at the door.
Disrespect for another guest's pronouns or gender identity is listed among the prohibited behaviors.
Membership cost and event prices are not published. Those come through the member site.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | A private educational venue focused on kink and BDSM, framed around community, education and growth |
|---|---|
| Not a swinger club | The venue presents itself as a dungeon and educational space, not an on-premise swinger club |
| Area | New Mexico, with the site's own keywords naming Albuquerque and Rio Rancho |
| Membership | A required profile comes first, then a membership. The site states plainly that membership cannot be obtained at the door on the night of an event |
| Age | 21 and over. Anyone found under 21, or providing false proof of age, is removed and barred from future events |
| Phones | No cell phones or recording devices of any sort inside, except pre-approved event photographers shooting by request. Devices can be checked at the front door |
| Substances | No alcohol or recreational drugs inside or before arriving. Anyone appearing under the influence is asked to leave immediately |
| Weapons | No firearms, airsoft, water, rubber band or paintball guns, or anything similar |
| Open flame | Barred. Wax play is allowed only with crock pots or electric candle warmers |
| Prohibited play | Anything appearing non-consensual, urine or feces play, and hypnosis play |
| No transactions | No exchange or transfer of money or barter is allowed |
| Scene etiquette | No interference by word or deed in any scene, including preparation, cleanup and aftercare. Walk away rather than intervene, and notify the monitor if needed |
| Designated spaces | No scenes outside designated dungeon spaces, and no sex or scenes in the aftercare room |
| Restricted play | Wax, cutting, piercing and blood play require clearance from the Dungeon Monitor or Mistress and your own cleanup supplies |
| Safe words | Yellow means adjust something without halting play. Red means all play stops until it is resolved or the scene ends |
| Gags | Anyone using a gag or speech-inhibiting device must arrange a non-verbal safe sign with the monitor beforehand |
| Pronouns | Disrespect for another guest's pronouns or gender identity is not tolerated |
| Privacy | The venue states it does not release or sell guest information; contacting another guest means asking them at a party |
| Not published | The street address, membership cost, event prices and a dated calendar do not appear on the public pages |
Event dates are not published on the public pages. The calendar sits behind the member area.
The public site also carries partner travel listings, which are separate from the venue's own events.
Planning a First Visit
Complete the required profile on purgatorydungeon.com and buy a membership before the event, since neither can be done at the door.
Leave phones and recording devices outside or check them at the front door. Photography is limited to pre-approved event photographers.
Arrive sober. Alcohol and recreational drugs are barred inside and beforehand, and anyone appearing under the influence is asked to leave.
Clear any wax, cutting, piercing or blood play with the Dungeon Monitor or Mistress first, and bring your own cleanup supplies.
Learn the safe words before you go. Yellow adjusts, red stops, and a gag requires a pre-agreed non-verbal sign.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Purgatory Dungeon Member Reviews
No member reviews of Purgatory Dungeon are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Purgatory Dungeon FAQ
Is Purgatory Dungeon a swinger club?
No. It presents itself as a private kink and BDSM educational venue with a dungeon, rather than an on-premise swinger club.
Where is it?
New Mexico, in the Albuquerque and Rio Rancho area. The street address is not published.
Do I need a membership?
Yes, and it must be arranged in advance. The site states that membership cannot be obtained at the door on the night.
Can I bring alcohol?
No. Alcohol and recreational drugs are barred inside and before arriving, and anyone appearing under the influence is asked to leave.
Are phones allowed?
No. Cell phones and recording devices of any sort are barred, other than pre-approved event photographers shooting by request.
What are the safe words?
Yellow means something needs adjusting without stopping play. Red means all play stops until the situation is corrected or the scene ends.
What is the age limit?
21 and over. Anyone found under 21 or presenting false proof of age is removed and barred from future events.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed purgatorydungeon.com, including its rules page, on September 21, 2026. The members-only educational venue framing, the New Mexico location keywords and the membership requirement and door policy come from that site. So do the 21 and over rule, the phone and recording ban and the alcohol and drug ban. The same pages give the weapons and open flame bans, the prohibited and restricted play types and the dungeon monitor role. They also cover the scene etiquette and designated space rules, the safe word system and the gag protocol. So do the pronoun rule and the privacy statement. The street address, membership cost, event prices and a dated calendar are not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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