It's A Secret: Edgewood, NM Private Members-Only Venue
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the venue
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the venue · Report outdated information
About It's A Secret
It's A Secret is a private members-only venue in Edgewood, New Mexico, for swingers, kinksters and alternative lifestylers. All experience levels are welcomed.
The venue publishes its own address at 61 Sunny Dale Rd, along with turn by turn driving directions from I-40 exit 181.
It sits about 29 minutes from Coronado Mall and 44 minutes from Cottonwood Mall, which is how the site frames the drive from Albuquerque.
Joe and Jaz host. The Q and A page describes an established business of four years with a single owner and several volunteers.
What to Expect at It's A Secret
The current space runs about 3,000 square feet. It holds three private rooms, three bathrooms, a greeting and kitchen area, a small kink area and three decks.
The site describes plans to add about 3,500 square feet, taking the venue to 7,500. A dungeon of 800 to 1,000 square feet is among the additions.
It is BYOB with plastic cups only, and guests stay responsible for their own drink at all times. The hosts ask for a designated driver.
Phones are barred completely. No photos or video with any device at any time, and anyone caught is escorted out.
There is one quiet area where only very light whispering is allowed, so that scenes and the people in them are not disturbed.
The consent rule is stated plainly. Only a straightforward yes is consent, while no, maybe and silence all mean no.
Who Can Attend
Couples, single men and single women, all aged 21 or over with identification. Everyone signs an acknowledgement on arrival.
The venue describes itself as pressure free and accepting of all body types and ages, with no obligation to join any activity.
Single men pay 50 dollars if they prepaid and arranged a spot with the host by phone. Without that the door price is 80 dollars.
Couples pay 60 dollars and single women pay 20 dollars, at the door or online.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | A private members-only gathering for swingers, kinksters, BDSM and alternative lifestylers, open to all experience levels |
|---|---|
| Hosts | Joe and Jaz, who describe bringing business and construction experience to the venue |
| History | The Q and A page describes an established business of four years with a single owner and several volunteers |
| Address | 61 Sunny Dale Rd, Edgewood, New Mexico. The site publishes turn by turn directions from I-40 exit 181 |
| Distance | About 29 minutes from Coronado Mall and 44 minutes from Cottonwood Mall in Albuquerque |
| Current space | About 3,000 square feet with three private rooms, three bathrooms, a greeting and kitchen area, a small kink area and three decks |
| Planned expansion | The site describes plans for an additional 3,500 square feet for a total of 7,500, including a dungeon of 800 to 1,000 square feet |
| Schedule | Gatherings run every Saturday, though a site-wide notice states the venue is currently open only two weekends a month |
| Prices at the door | 60 dollars for a couple, 20 dollars for a single woman, and 50 dollars for a single man who prepaid and arranged a spot |
| Single male terms | Without contacting the host to secure a spot the price is 80 dollars at the door. Arriving single after paying as a couple means paying the difference |
| Prepay window | Sunday through Friday, and only while the payment button is enabled |
| Refunds | None in cash. A missed prepaid event becomes a credit usable within 30 days |
| Age | 21 and over, with identification required and an acknowledgement signed on arrival |
| Phones | Absolutely no phones. No photos or video with any device at any time, on pain of being escorted out |
| Drugs | None of any kind are permitted |
| Quiet area | One quiet area exists, where only very light whispering is allowed so scenes are not disturbed |
| Consent | Only a straightforward yes counts as consent. No, maybe and silence all mean no |
| Doors | A closed door is not to be knocked on, opened or disturbed, and a door left ajar is left exactly as found |
| Privacy | The venue states it never shares anyone's information and never sends unwanted email |
| Discretion | The venue reserves the right to deny entry or remove anyone at any time |
Gatherings run on Saturdays. A site-wide notice states that the venue is currently open only two weekends a month while the grounds change.
Prepayment runs Sunday through Friday and only while the payment button is enabled on the site.
Planning a First Visit
Single men should call 505-750-3977 to secure a spot before prepaying, since that is what sets the 50 dollar price.
Check the events page for the current weekend, since the venue is running two weekends a month rather than every Saturday.
Bring identification and your own alcohol, and expect to sign an acknowledgement at the door.
Leave the phone alone once inside. No photos or video of any kind are allowed anywhere in the venue.
Understand the refund policy before prepaying. There are no cash refunds, and a missed event becomes a 30 day credit.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
It's A Secret Member Reviews
No member reviews of It's A Secret are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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It's A Secret FAQ
Where is It's A Secret?
61 Sunny Dale Rd, Edgewood, New Mexico, about 29 minutes from Coronado Mall in Albuquerque.
When is it open?
Gatherings run on Saturdays, though a site notice states the venue is currently open only two weekends a month.
How much does it cost?
60 dollars for a couple, 20 dollars for a single woman, and 50 dollars for a single man who prepaid and arranged a spot. Otherwise 80 dollars for a single man.
Is it BYOB?
Yes, with plastic cups only. Guests stay responsible for their own drinks.
Are phones allowed?
No. No photos or video with any device at any time, and anyone caught is escorted out.
What is the age limit?
21 and over, with identification required.
Are refunds available?
No cash refunds. A missed prepaid event becomes a credit that must be used within 30 days.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed itisasecret.com, including its rules, payment and Q and A pages, on September 21, 2026. The published address and driving directions, the distances from Albuquerque and the current square footage and room count come from that site. So do the planned expansion, the Saturday schedule and the two weekends a month notice and the pricing by category. The same pages give the single male prepay terms, the refund policy, the 21 and over rule and the phone ban. They also cover the drug ban, the BYOB policy, the quiet area and the consent rule. So do the door etiquette and the privacy statement. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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