New Jersey Swinger Parties, Party Nights and Lifestyle Events
5 venues, 1 with published nights, 5 with dated events · Every date and schedule taken from the venue's own website
New Jersey has 5 verified lifestyle venues with a page on this site: 4 on-premise clubs and 1 social venue.
1 of them publish regular party nights or opening hours, and 5 list dated events on their own websites.
This page gathers those schedules in one place. Every line comes from the venue's own site as read on the date shown on its page, and nothing here is taken from third-party calendars.
Dates move and nights get cancelled. Treat this as the starting list, then confirm with the venue before you book a hotel or drive across the state.
Recurring Party Nights in New Jersey
Venues in New Jersey that publish a weekly pattern or opening hours, listed by city.
| Venue | Where | Format | Nights and hours |
|---|---|---|---|
| Karizma Social Club | Glen Gardner, NJ | Members-Only On-Premise Club | Every Saturday; first and third Friday of each month as Friday Vibes, where a one-night Friday-only membership can be tried |
Upcoming Dated Events in New Jersey
Dated events listed on venue sites at the time of review, by venue. The venue page carries the full detail and the ticket link.
- Karizma Social Club, Glen Gardner, NJ: Foam Fantasy Sep 5; Ritmo Prohibido Latin Party Sep 12; Detention After Dark Sep 19; Decades Party 80s, 90s, and 2000s Sep 26; A Wicked Night Out Oct 3; Friday Vibes Sep 4, Sep 18, and Oct 2
- IntimateParties Group, Northeast hotel venues: Kink A Ween, a Halloween 2026 event, and a New Year's Eve 2027 event are named. Specific dates and times are NOT PUBLISHED on the pages reviewed
- World Travel Events, Parsippany, NJ: Fri Oct 2 to Sun Oct 4, 2026, 8 PM to 5 AM, Holiday Inn Parsippany, NJ; Friday theme Freakshow Naughty School Girl (spooky school girls, nerds, principals, ghoulish football players); Saturday theme Tricks, Treats and Temptations
- Silver and Spicy, Port Monmouth, NJ: A two day entire hotel takeover in Scranton, Pennsylvania, described as a holiday themed weekend with no outsiders present
- Curvy And Fabulous Events, Scranton, PA: A signature Halloween event billed as a two day entire hotel takeover in Scranton, Pennsylvania, dated October 16, 2026
Hotel Takeovers and Party Hosts in New Jersey
No hotel takeover or travelling party host with a public website has a page for New Jersey yet. The on-premise clubs above are the fixed-venue options, and neighbouring states below list hosts that travel.
Resorts and Weekend Events in New Jersey
No lifestyle resort or campground in New Jersey has a page on this site yet. For weekend trips, the travel, resorts and cruises guide and the lifestyle-friendly campgrounds guide cover the options couples travel for.
Before Your First New Jersey Party
A first party in New Jersey usually starts with a social night or a meet and greet, not a play night. That lets you meet the hosts and other couples before you commit to a venue with play space.
2 of the 5 venues require a membership or an application first. Apply a week ahead, since some review every profile by hand.
1 of the venues is BYOB. Bring what you plan to drink and pace it, because most problems at parties start with alcohol.
Ask before joining anyone, take a no the first time, and leave phones in the car or a locker. Hosts remove people for exactly those three things.
Three guides are worth reading together before the night. Start with what really happens at a swinger party, then swinger house parties explained and swinger club etiquette.
Members in New Jersey
West Coast Swingers runs a private members community for couples and singles in the lifestyle. Create a free account to see members in New Jersey, send messages, and hear about parties before they are announced publicly.
New Jersey Swinger Party FAQ
How do you find swinger parties in New Jersey?
Start with the 5 verified venues on this page. 1 publish regular nights and 5 list dated events on their own sites. The rest announce to members, so join or RSVP through the venue.
Are there hotel takeovers in New Jersey?
No takeover organizer with a public website has a page for New Jersey yet. Organizers in neighbouring states often travel, so check those pages.
Do New Jersey swinger parties admit single men?
It differs by venue and by night. Many cap single men, require a sponsoring couple, or run couples-only nights. Each venue page states the published rule.
What does a swinger party in New Jersey cost?
Each venue publishes its own prices, and this page does not repeat them because they change often. Open the venue page for the current door fee, membership and ticket terms.
Do you have to play at a New Jersey swinger party?
No. Many guests socialize and go home. Well run venues treat that as a normal night and hosts expect first-timers to watch and talk.
How do you meet couples in New Jersey between parties?
Through the West Coast Swingers members community. A free account shows members in New Jersey and lets you message before an event.
City and Club Guides for New Jersey
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- USA swinger club directory
Plan Your First New Jersey Party Night with Confidence
West Coast Swingers is a trusted educational resource for couples exploring the lifestyle. Visit westcoastswingers.com for more guides, or join the private community at members.westcoastswingers.com.
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Event listings are provided for informational purposes. Dates, hours, prices and admission policies change often, so confirm current details directly with each venue before you travel.