Hedonism II vs Temptation vs Desire: A Comparison
/ Swinger Travel & ResortsThis guide compares Hedonism II, Temptation Cancun Resort and Desire Resorts on the points that decide a booking. It covers who can stay, play rules, clothing policy, rooms, theme nights and fit. Every fact comes from each resort's own website, as reviewed in September 2026.
The comparison is researched reference, not a trip report. Nothing here reflects a personal stay. Where a resort does not publish something, this guide says so plainly rather than filling the gap. Policies change, so confirm anything important with the resort before you book.
The three properties often get grouped together, yet they are built for different couples. One is clothing-optional with a playroom and welcomes singles. One is top-optional and publishes no play policy. One is couples only with designated au naturel areas and a playroom. The details below show where each line falls.
The Three Resorts at a Glance
Each resort describes its own format in a short line. Those lines are the fastest way to see how different the three really are. The summary below uses only what each site states.
- Hedonism II, Negril, Jamaica: adults only, clothing-optional, all-inclusive. Guests must be 18 or older, and couples and singles are both welcome. A playroom operates late at night.
- Temptation Cancun Resort, Cancun, Mexico: adults only, top-optional, all-inclusive. Guests must be 21 or older, with age verified at entry. No play policy is published.
- Desire Resorts, two properties in the Riviera Maya region of Mexico: couples only, clothing-optional, all-inclusive. Guests must be 21 or older. Each property lists a playroom and a Jacuzzi Lounge.
Temptation and Desire are sister brands under the same operator, Original Resorts and Cruises. The Temptation site names Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl as sister properties. Hedonism II is a separate resort in Jamaica. For the full record on each, see the Hedonism II resort profile, the Temptation Cancun profile and the Desire Resorts profile.
None of the three sites publishes a street address or a total room count. Temptation and Desire do not publish nightly rates on the pages reviewed. Both route room pricing to a booking portal. Hedonism II publishes per-person nightly rates by room category.
Who Can Visit Each Resort
Hedonism II sets an 18 year minimum for stays and guest passes. Couples and singles are welcome. Singles pay 150 percent of the per-person rate. The resort does not accept more than one male per room, so it rejects MM, MMM and MMF bookings.
Temptation Cancun Resort is for adults 21 and over. Age verification is enforced at entry. The pages reviewed do not state a couples-only rule or a singles policy. Temptation does not publish who else may book, so a couple with a specific question should ask the resort directly.
Desire Resorts is couples only, with a minimum age of 21. The Desire Pearl page specifies straight couples. The pages reviewed do not address same-sex couples beyond that wording. Singles are not mentioned as eligible anywhere on the Desire pages reviewed.
These rules shape the crowd more than any amenity does. A resort that welcomes singles will feel different from one that admits couples only. If the presence of a single male or single woman matters to either of you, this section settles much of the choice.
Lifestyle and Play Policy
Hedonism II calls itself lifestyle friendly. Its site names communication and consent as the pillars of the resort. It states zero tolerance for disrespect and non-consensual touching. Public displays of affection are restricted to the Playroom and the nude pool and hot tub.
The Hedonism II Playroom is open 10 PM to 4 AM, and the Happening Hut is open 24 hours. Playroom access is limited to couples, single women and invited single men. Day and night pass holders cannot enter. Guests must respect personal space.
Temptation Cancun Resort does not publish a play policy. The pages reviewed contain no playroom and no swinger statement. The site positions the resort as a 21 plus, top-optional adult playground with theme nights and pool parties. Beyond that, the resort does not publish its rules on intimate activity.
Desire Resorts limits intimate activities to the Jacuzzi Lounge and the Playroom. Strict regulations prohibit such activities in public areas such as pools and the beach. Each Desire property lists a playroom among its venues. Desire does not publish its full policy text on the pages reviewed.
Written rules are only half of any play space. The shared standards covered in consent in swinging apply at every resort, whatever its policy page says. Agree on your own limits as a couple before you arrive.
Clothing Policy Compared
Hedonism II designates rooms and areas as either clothing-optional or nude. On the nude beach, nude pool and nude hot tub, full nudity is mandatory. Guests must disrobe immediately on entry. The main pool and plunge pools are clothing-optional.
Hedonism II requires cover-ups in the restaurants, gym, boutique, wine bar, espresso bar, lobby and offices. The nightclub requires full clothing. A couple choosing Hedonism should expect clear zones, each with its own rule.
Temptation Cancun Resort is top-optional, not nude. Topless areas include the Sexy Pool, Quiet Pool, outdoor jacuzzi and beach. Full nudity is not permitted. The site directs guests who want full nudity to the sister Desire resorts.
Desire Resorts describes a clothing-optional ambience with designated au naturel areas. Those areas are the pools, beach, Jacuzzi Lounge and playroom. Clothing is required in the disco, restaurants and other public spaces.
The practical difference is simple. Hedonism II has areas where nudity is required. Desire has areas where nudity is allowed. Temptation stops at top-optional.
Rooms and What the Plan Covers
Hedonism II sorts rooms into au naturel and clothing-optional categories. Categories run from Classic garden view rooms to Premium ocean view hot tub rooms. Some rooms sit near the spa. The all-inclusive plan covers meals served 20 hours a day and premium liquor at five bars.
Hedonism II lists three pools, three plunge pools, hot tubs, live shows, a nightclub and theme parties. It also lists watersports, a gym and complimentary Wi-Fi. Gratuity is included under a no tipping policy. A refundable deposit is required at check-in.
Temptation Cancun Resort runs from Trendy Rooms to Oceanfront Master Suites and Penthouses. The Tower by Temptation adds VIP check-in, a VIP sundeck and an exclusive room service menu. The site lists seven restaurants, six bars, two conceptual pools and a fitness center. The spa, beauty center and Glam Shop cost extra.
Desire Riviera Maya Resort offers suites up to a Diamond Ocean View Swim-Up Suite, plus an Eden Level with butler service. It lists eight restaurants, nine bars, two conceptual pools, a disco and a spa. Desire Pearl in Puerto Morelos offers suites with plunge pools and a Mansion category. It lists three restaurants, four bars and one conceptual pool.
Check-in at Hedonism II is 3 PM, with check-out at noon. Temptation lists check-in at 3 p.m. and check-out at 11 a.m., with fees after noon. Desire does not publish check-in or check-out times on the pages reviewed.
Theme Nights and Dress Codes
All three resorts run themed nights, and each handles them differently. The general idea behind these nights is covered in theme nights explained. The specifics below come from each resort's own schedule.
Hedonism II holds Jamaica Night every Monday all year. The other nights rotate quarterly, with rotations published through December 2027. The July to September 2026 rotation included a Glow Party, a Fetish Sleepover and a Casino Night. The October to December 2026 rotation includes Dollhouse Fantasy and Sexy Time Machine.
Temptation Cancun Resort requires a dress code every night. The week runs from Western Rush on Monday to Steampunk Pulse on Sunday. Party Angels on Wednesday calls for lingerie, and Velvet Rouge on Saturday calls for red. Foam and pool parties run on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday.
Desire Riviera Maya runs a seven-night rotation that includes Between the Sheets, Subs and Doms and Country Neon. Desire Pearl runs a similar rotation with Purple Seduction added. Desire Riviera Maya also lists a Wednesday Garden of Eden pool party and a Friday Pina Colada Foam Party.
Packing follows from these schedules. Temptation's nightly dress codes call for the most outfit planning. Hedonism's rotating themes change by quarter, so check the calendar for your dates. Desire's themes repeat weekly at each property.
How Each Resort Presents Itself
No guide can promise how a stay will feel. What each resort publishes about itself is the closest honest signal. The descriptions below are the resorts' own words, not a verdict.
Hedonism II calls itself the world's most iconic adult playground and describes itself as lifestyle friendly. Its published rules are detailed and specific. Nude zones, playroom hours, access limits and recording bans are all stated.
Temptation Cancun Resort presents itself as a 21 plus, top-optional adult playground. Its pages put the weight on nightly dress codes, pool parties, dining and The Tower's VIP perks. It publishes no lifestyle or play statement. A couple should read that silence as unknown, not as permission or prohibition.
Desire Resorts promotes a stimulating atmosphere and seductive theme nights. Its site invites guests to surrender to every desire. It pairs that language with firm limits on where intimate activity may happen. The couples-only rule shapes the setting as much as the wording does.
Which Resort Fits Which Couple
Fit depends on what the two of you agree you want, not on which resort is best. Start from your shared limits and match them to the published policies. The pairings below follow directly from what each site states.
- Hedonism II suits couples who want a resort that publishes a playroom, nude zones and clear consent rules. It also suits couples comfortable sharing space with single guests.
- Temptation Cancun Resort suits couples who want an adults-only party resort with top-optional areas and nightly dress codes. It suits couples for whom a published play space is not the point of the trip.
- Desire Resorts suits couples who want a couples-only setting with au naturel areas and a playroom. Couples who are not a straight couple should confirm eligibility first, given the Desire Pearl wording.
The broader guide to swinger travel, resorts and cruises covers other formats. A closer look at the two Mexican brands alone is in the Cancun resorts guide.
If one partner is keener than the other, let the reluctant partner's comfort set the choice. A resort with a playroom is an option, never an obligation. A partner who prefers a top-optional stay has made a valid choice, not a compromise.
Photography, Privacy and Before You Book
Hedonism II bans photography and recording in the playrooms, nude beach and nude pool. Smart eyewear with recording capability is banned anywhere on the property. Photos or video of entertainment and unsolicited photography are also prohibited.
Desire Resorts restricts photography to the privacy of guest rooms for personal use. Temptation restricts photography at the main pool and on certain theme nights. It permits photography elsewhere and offers dedicated photo spots. Temptation also warns guests to verify representatives because of fraud concerns.
Several details stay unpublished across the three sites. None lists a street address or room count. Temptation publishes no play policy and no singles policy. Desire publishes no phone, email or check-in times on the pages reviewed. Ask each resort directly about anything that matters to your plans.
Questions Couples Ask
Which of the three resorts allows full nudity?
Hedonism II and Desire Resorts both have nude or au naturel areas. Hedonism II requires full nudity on its nude beach, nude pool and nude hot tub. Temptation Cancun Resort is top-optional and does not permit full nudity.
Can singles stay at these resorts?
Hedonism II welcomes singles, who pay 150 percent of the per-person rate. Desire Resorts is couples only. Temptation Cancun Resort does not publish a singles policy on the pages reviewed.
Does Temptation Cancun have a playroom?
Temptation does not publish a playroom or a play policy on the pages reviewed. Its sister Desire properties each list a playroom. Ask Temptation directly if this matters to your trip.
What is the minimum age at each resort?
Hedonism II sets an 18 year minimum for stays and guest passes. Temptation Cancun Resort and Desire Resorts both require guests to be 21 or older. Temptation enforces age verification at entry.
Do these resorts publish their prices?
Hedonism II publishes per-person nightly rates by room category. Temptation and Desire do not publish nightly rates on the pages reviewed. Both route room pricing to a booking portal.
Are same-sex couples welcome at Desire Resorts?
The Desire Pearl page states straight couples. The pages reviewed do not address same-sex couples beyond that wording. Confirm eligibility with the resort before booking.
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Final Thoughts
The three resorts answer different questions. Hedonism II publishes the most detailed rules, welcomes singles and runs a late-night playroom. Temptation offers a top-optional party setting with nightly dress codes and says nothing about play. Desire keeps its properties couples only, with au naturel areas and a playroom.
The right choice starts at home, with a clear talk about what each of you wants from the trip. Match those shared limits to the published policies, then confirm the gaps with the resort itself. A trip chosen together, with room for either partner to say no, is the one worth taking.
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