Virginia Friends: Richmond, VA Couples-Only Hotel Socials
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official club website and About Us page
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official club website and About Us page · Report outdated information
About Virginia Friends
Virginia Friends is a lifestyle social club that has run couples-only hotel socials in Virginia since 1993. The club is based in Virginia Beach. Its next listed event is a New Year's Eve party at the Four Points Hotel in Richmond on December 31, 2026.
A social follows a set shape. It starts with a dance in the hotel lounge with live entertainment and a cash bar. Then it moves to a reserved members-only club floor with a hospitality suite, a group room, and member rooms, all behind club security.
The club is for couples and single females only. It says plainly that there are no single men at its socials, and every first-time member sits through a newcomer seminar before the party.
What to Expect at Virginia Friends
The About page walks through a night. Early registration runs 3 to 5 PM in the lounge, followed by the mandatory newcomer seminar for first-timers. Registration then requires a driver's license for both partners and issues wristbands that stay on all night.
The dance averages 65 or more couples, ages 25 to 55, with live entertainment and a full-service cash bar under Virginia ABC rules. When it ends, the party moves to the reserved second floor, where security checks wristbands at every entrance.
Upstairs is BYOB with mixers and munchies in the hospitality suite. An adjoining room serves group-oriented couples, sometimes with a Sybian, and member rooms line the floor. The club says every kind of swing happens there, from soft swap to watching.
Who Can Attend
Couples and single females only, 21 and over with ID for both partners. Single men are not admitted, and the club says that keeps the dance free of men hitting on spouses.
A Gold Membership is sold on the site, and the club expects members to attend events rather than treat the site as a dating platform. Fake profiles and people promoting competing events are barred.
Every couple signs a club agreement, wears club wristbands, and dresses street legal in public hotel areas. Lifestyle activity stays inside the lounge and club floor. No controlled substances are allowed.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Lifestyle social club running since 1993; socials at a nationally known hotel with a dance for 65-plus couples followed by a reserved members-only club floor |
|---|---|
| Next event | New Year's Eve Party, Thursday Dec 31, 2026, 7 to 11:30 PM, Four Points Hotel Richmond, Richmond, VA; details to come |
| Who | Couples and single females only; the club says its socials have no single men; ages 25 to 55 typical |
| Membership | VA Friends Gold Membership sold on the site; the site exists to track membership, sell tickets, and share event details, and members are expected to attend events |
| Admission prices | NOT PUBLISHED without login |
| First visit | Early registration 3 to 5 PM in the hotel lounge; a mandatory newcomer seminar for all first-time members; both partners show a driver's license; wristbands and optional name tags issued |
| The dance | Live entertainment and a full-service cash bar in the hotel lounge; Virginia ABC rules apply, so no nudity in the lounge and no outside drinks |
| Club floor | After the dance the party moves to the reserved second floor with security at every entrance; hospitality suite with mixers and munchies, BYOB, an adjoining group room, and member rooms on the floor |
| Rules | No controlled substances; signed club agreement on file; 21 and over with ID; wristbands required; proper dress in public hotel areas; do not invite non-members to the club floor; keep lifestyle activity in the lounge and club floor |
| Contact | 757-389-8269; P.O. Box 56641, Virginia Beach, VA 23456 |
December 31, 2026, 7 to 11:30 PM: New Year's Eve Party at the Four Points Hotel Richmond, with more details to come. Past events are listed on the site.
Socials start with 3 to 5 PM early registration, the dance in the evening, and the club floor after.
Planning a First Visit
Create a profile, buy the Gold Membership, and RSVP for the New Year's Eve party. Book a room at the Four Points, ideally on the club floor, and arrive by 3 PM for early registration and the newcomer seminar.
Bring ID for both partners, street-legal clothes for public areas, and your own bottle for the club floor. Drinks bought in the lounge stay in the lounge.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Virginia Friends Member Reviews
No member reviews of Virginia Friends are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Virginia Friends FAQ
Is Virginia Friends on-premise?
The dance is social. The reserved members-only club floor afterward has a hospitality suite, a group room, and member rooms where, in the club's words, anything goes.
Can single men attend Virginia Friends?
No. The club is for couples and single females only.
When is the next event?
A New Year's Eve party on December 31, 2026, 7 to 11:30 PM, at the Four Points Hotel in Richmond.
Do I need a membership?
Yes. The Gold Membership is sold on the site, and first-time members must attend the newcomer seminar.
How much does it cost?
Prices are not published without a login.
Is it BYOB?
The lounge has a cash bar under Virginia ABC rules. The club floor upstairs is BYOB with mixers and snacks provided.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed vafriendsonline.com on September 20, 2026, including the home page event list and the About Us page. The event date and hotel, guest policy, newcomer seminar, club floor format, and rules come from those pages. Prices are behind the member login. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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