Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate: City not published Hotel Play Party Group
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the hosts
Current Event Dates Unverified
Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the hosts · Report outdated information
About Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate
Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate is a lifestyle group rather than a venue. The hosts run hotel play parties and describe the group as swingers who crave interracial play.
Steph and Rich host. Their about page describes a laid back couple whose stated goal is getting the right people together for a good night.
The public site is small but specific. It publishes the attendee mix, the donation amounts, a start time and a vetting process.
What it does not publish is a city, a hotel, or a current dated schedule. The event listed carries a date without a year attached.
What to Expect at Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate
The format is a hotel play party. The hosts describe an environment set up for continuous play with a fun vibe and a good group.
Space is described as very limited for each party, which is why the vetting step comes before any invitation.
The party shown on the events page starts at 9:30pm. No end time, dress code or bar policy is published.
The hosts frame the appeal as meeting new people and having laughs alongside the play, rather than a club night out.
Who Can Attend
The group states it is looking for sexy couples, single ladies, and very select gentlemen. That last category is limited by design.
Every guest must be vetted and approved before attending. Text 631-877-0240 for consideration rather than turning up.
Donations are published by category: 80 dollars for a couple, 120 dollars for a single male, and 20 dollars for a single female.
An age rule is not published. Confirm it along with the location when you contact the hosts.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Hotel play parties hosted by a couple, not a club with a permanent address |
|---|---|
| Hosts | Steph and Rich, who describe themselves as a laid back couple focused on getting the right group together |
| Focus | The group describes itself as swingers who crave interracial play |
| Who may attend | Sexy couples, single ladies, and very select gentlemen, in the group's own wording |
| Capacity | Space is described as very limited for each party |
| Vetting | Guests must be vetted and approved before attending, arranged by text to 631-877-0240 |
| Donations | 80 dollars for a couple, 120 dollars for a single male, 20 dollars for a single female |
| Atmosphere | The hosts describe an environment conducive to continuous play with a fun vibe |
| Start time | The party listed on the events page starts at 9:30pm |
| Contact | Text 631-877-0240 or use the email address published on the contact page |
| Not published | The city, the hotel, a current dated schedule, an age rule and a dress code do not appear on the public pages |
The events page lists a hotel play party starting at 9:30pm on a Saturday. The date carries no year, so it may be out of date.
Because dates are not maintained publicly, text the hosts for the next confirmed party rather than relying on the page.
Planning a First Visit
Text 631-877-0240 for consideration. The site states plainly that guests must be vetted and approved to attend.
Ask for the city and the hotel when you make contact, since neither appears anywhere on the public site.
Plan for the published donation for your category, and confirm the current amount at the same time.
Confirm the current date directly. The listed party carries a day and month without a year, so it should not be treated as current.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate Member Reviews
No member reviews of Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate FAQ
What is Vanilla NEEDS Chocolate?
A lifestyle group that hosts hotel play parties and describes itself as swingers who crave interracial play.
Where are the parties?
NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages reviewed. The city and the hotel are not named.
Who can attend?
Couples, single women, and a small number of very select gentlemen, all vetted and approved beforehand.
How much is it?
The published donations are 80 dollars for a couple, 120 dollars for a single male and 20 dollars for a single female.
How do I get approved?
Text 631-877-0240 for consideration. The hosts state that space is very limited.
Who runs it?
Steph and Rich, a couple who describe their aim as getting the right group of people together.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed vnclifestyle.com, including its about, events, tickets and contact pages, on September 21, 2026. The hotel play party format, the interracial focus, the hosts, the attendee mix and the vetting requirement come from that site. So do the limited space, the 9:30pm start time and the donation amounts and the contact number. The city, the hotel, a current dated schedule, the age rule and the dress code are not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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