The Lux Social Club: Illinois and Indiana state line area Private Lifestyle Gathering
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the hosts
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the hosts · Report outdated information
About The Lux Social Club
The Lux Experience is a private lifestyle gathering for couples and highly selective singles. The hosts state plainly that it is not a business.
No city or address is published. The lodging page lists hotels ten minutes away in Lansing, Illinois and Schererville, Indiana, which places it near the state line.
Membership is free but gated. A request, a verification photo and a decision by the hosts all come before any address is shared.
What sets it apart on its own telling is the emphasis on mixing. The hosts run games to get people talking and say the gathering suits people who want to meet others.
What to Expect at The Lux Social Club
The published calendar is busy and themed. Recent listings cover kink Fridays, a nurses and doctors night, a little black dress night, and costume evenings.
Sunday socials run a different format, built around a skill. Listed sessions include a cocktail mixology masterclass and a pole dancing class.
Events are BYOB. The hosts frame the space as their home and ask guests to keep public areas clean and to respect personal hygiene.
Rules are short and enforced. Asking before touching, respecting a no, keeping non-erotic conversation out of the pleasure areas, and no cameras or phones there.
The hosts list the grounds for removal and loss of membership directly, including over-intoxication, arguing with staff and security, and violating the dress code.
Who Can Attend
The focus is couples and single women. Single men are described as highly selective and must be recommended by a sponsoring member couple.
Everyone must be over 21. The hosts approve membership at their own discretion and reply by email within two days.
Membership costs nothing but requires maintenance. Members must attend occasional events to keep their status active.
A verification photo is required before approval. The hosts state it will not be shared with anyone.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | The hosts state repeatedly that this is not a business but a gathering of like-minded adults, held at what they call their home |
|---|---|
| Location | Not published. The lodging page lists hotels ten minutes away in Lansing, Illinois and Schererville, Indiana |
| Membership | Free. The process runs in four steps: request membership, send a verification photo, wait up to two days for a decision, and attend events to stay active |
| Photo verification | Mandatory. The hosts state that no photo verification means no membership, and that the photo is not shared |
| Who may attend | Mainly couples and single women. Single men are highly selective and must be recommended by a sponsoring member couple |
| Calendar | A full published calendar of themed nights, including kink Fridays, costume nights, a little black dress night, and Sunday socials |
| Sunday socials | Skill-based sessions such as a cocktail mixology masterclass and a pole dancing class |
| Address release | Members RSVP or message for the address of each event; nothing is posted publicly |
| Bar policy | BYOB |
| Tone | The hosts actively encourage meeting people, run games to break the ice, and say the gathering suits people who want to socialize |
| Age | Over 21 |
| Dress code | Strictly enforced. No athletic wear, sports jerseys, torn tee shirts, athletic shoes, construction boots, hoodies or baseball caps |
| Cameras | Cameras and phones are barred from the pleasure areas |
| Hotels | Extended Stay America, Holiday Inn Express and Comfort Suites in Lansing, Illinois; Hometown Suites, Holiday Inn Express and Comfort Inn in Schererville, Indiana |
| Not published | The city, the street address, admission prices and any age policy beyond 21 do not appear on the public pages |
Events run most weekends, with a published calendar covering Friday kink nights, Saturday themed parties and Sunday socials.
Each listing carries a date but not an address. Members RSVP or message for the location of that event.
Planning a First Visit
Request membership through the form, then email a verification photo. Without the photo there is no membership.
Expect a decision by email within two days, granted at the hosts' discretion.
RSVP to the event you want and message for the address, which is never posted publicly.
Dress as if taking a partner on a date. Athletic wear, jerseys, torn tee shirts, gym shoes, boots, hoodies and caps are all barred.
Bring your own alcohol, and leave the phone and camera out of the pleasure areas.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
The Lux Social Club Member Reviews
No member reviews of The Lux Social Club are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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The Lux Social Club FAQ
Where is The Lux?
NOT PUBLISHED on the public pages reviewed. The lodging page lists hotels ten minutes away in Lansing, Illinois and Schererville, Indiana.
How much is membership?
It is free. The gate is a membership request, a verification photo and approval by the hosts.
Can single men attend?
Only a small selective group. A single man must be recommended by a sponsoring member couple.
Is it BYOB?
Yes. The etiquette page lists BYOB as the first item.
How do I find out where an event is?
Members RSVP or message for the address of each event. Nothing is posted publicly.
Is there a dress code?
Yes, and it is strictly enforced. No athletic wear, jerseys, torn tee shirts, gym shoes, construction boots, hoodies or baseball caps.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed thelux.net, including its upcoming events, etiquette and dress code, lodging and contact pages, on September 21, 2026. The not-a-business framing, the free photo-verified membership process and its four steps and the two day response time come from that site. So do the attendance focus on couples and single women and the sponsoring couple requirement for single men. The same pages give the themed calendar and Sunday socials, the BYOB policy, the over 21 rule and the etiquette list. They also cover the grounds for removal and the dress code and the listed hotels. The city, the street address and admission prices are not published. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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