On the Border Lifestyle Co.: Oklahoma City and Tulsa, OK Lifestyle Community and Event Organizer
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official community website and event listings
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official community website and event listings · Report outdated information
About On the Border Lifestyle Co.
On the Border Lifestyle Co., or OTB, is an Oklahoma lifestyle community that connects non-monogamous people at festivals, parties, and through a private members network. It claims 8,000-plus members, 10-plus events a month, and six years in operation.
Events range from rooftop cocktail parties in Tulsa to a 1,800-person flagship festival, hotel takeovers, campground retreats, and dungeon nights. Fall 2026 includes a couples retreat and a party at The Club in OKC on September 25. An after-Halloween hotel takeover follows November 6 to 8 and a Tulsa dungeon event November 20.
Joining is free with no credit card. A paid community membership adds profiles, videos, and pics, and the group also books Hedonism II trips and cruises.
What to Expect at On the Border Lifestyle Co.
OTB is an organizer rather than a single venue, so each event has its own setting. The Club in OKC hosts No Strings Attached on September 25 with the address on the ticket confirmation. The after-Halloween takeover uses an OKC hotel named after ticketing.
The site promises workshops, kink labs, speed dating, and rookie-friendly spaces alongside the parties. It says every event is built for real connection with zero awkwardness.
Travel is a big part of the calendar. OTB goes to Hedonism II every March for Ms No Swimsuit and every October for Bi Week, and it runs lifestyle cruises.
Who Can Attend
Anyone who creates a free profile; the site says members are verified and vetted and that the network has no bots or fakes. Members span OKC, Tulsa, Dallas, Little Rock, Wichita, and six states.
The public pages do not spell out couples-only or single-men rules for every event, so read each listing. Some events, such as the Tulsa gangbang bash, are clearly specific in format.
Ticket prices are on each event page and were not published on the pages reviewed.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Oklahoma lifestyle community where non-monogamous people connect at festivals, parties, and in a private members network; calls itself Oklahoma's number one lifestyle community |
|---|---|
| Size | 8,000-plus swingers and lifestyle members across Oklahoma and beyond; 10-plus lifestyle events per month; six years running |
| Upcoming | Sep 25 to 27, 2026, LS Couple's Retreat at Lori's Country Cabins private campground; Sep 25, 9 PM to 2 AM, No Strings Attached at The Club in OKC; Nov 6 to 8, The After Halloween Two Day Mega Hotel Takeover at an OKC hotel; Nov 20, 8 PM to 1 AM, All-Out Gangbang Bash at 13th Floor, a Tulsa dungeon |
| Event types | Rooftop cocktail parties in Tulsa, a 1,800-person flagship festival, hotel takeovers, retreats, workshops, kink labs, speed dating, and rookie-friendly spaces |
| Membership | Free to join with no credit card and cancel anytime; a paid OTB Community Membership adds profiles, videos, and pics; members-only weekly photo challenges |
| Privacy | Profiles are not shared, faces do not appear on Google, and members can be as discreet as they choose |
| Travel | Hedonism II in Negril every March for the Ms No Swimsuit competition and in October for Bi Week, with Tom's Trips; lifestyle cruises; Ms No Swimsuit 2027 February 27 to March 6 |
| Reach | Members in OKC, Tulsa, Dallas, Little Rock, and Wichita across six states |
| Prices | NOT PUBLISHED on the pages reviewed; each event lists its own tickets |
September 25 to 27, 2026: LS Couple's Retreat, private campground. September 25: No Strings Attached, The Club in OKC, 9 PM to 2 AM. November 6 to 8: After Halloween Two Day Mega Hotel Takeover, OKC. November 20: All-Out Gangbang Bash, 13th Floor, Tulsa, 8 PM to 1 AM.
February 27 to March 6, 2027: Ms No Swimsuit at Hedonism II, Negril.
Planning a First Visit
Create a free profile on otbls.com, read the event calendar, and pick a rookie-friendly party or workshop. Buy tickets online; venue addresses arrive with the confirmation.
Check each listing's format before you book, since events range from cocktail mixers to dungeon nights.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
On the Border Lifestyle Co. Member Reviews
No member reviews of On the Border Lifestyle Co. are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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On the Border Lifestyle Co. FAQ
Is On the Border a club?
No. It is a lifestyle community and event organizer that runs parties, hotel takeovers, retreats, workshops, and travel across Oklahoma and nearby states.
How much does it cost to join?
A basic profile is free with no credit card. A paid community membership and individual event tickets are sold on the site.
When is the next event?
September 25, 2026, with a couples retreat weekend and No Strings Attached at The Club in OKC. An after-Halloween hotel takeover follows November 6 to 8.
Can single men attend?
The public pages do not state a blanket policy. Read each event listing before buying.
Where are the events?
Oklahoma City, Tulsa, and private venues across the region, with addresses given on ticket confirmation.
Does OTB run travel?
Yes. Hedonism II trips every March and October and lifestyle cruises.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed otbls.com on September 20, 2026, including the home page and event listings. Member counts, event frequency, upcoming dates and venues, membership terms, and travel programs come from those pages. Ticket prices are on individual event pages. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
Plan Your OTB Weekend with Confidence
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