Jen's Social networking: Wisconsin and Illinois Lifestyle Event Host
Listing last verified: September 21, 2026 · Source: Official website of the host
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official website of the host · Report outdated information
About Jen's Social networking
Jen's Social Networking is a lifestyle event host rather than a venue. Events run across Wisconsin and Illinois at bars, clubs, hotels and suites.
Jen has hosted lifestyle events for about 14 years. She is married to Travis, and the pair have been in the lifestyle for over 14 years.
Three formats run. Bar and club takeovers, two day hotel takeovers, and play events for more experienced guests.
Event sizes differ sharply by format. Bar events typically draw 150 to 250 people and hotel events 250 to 500, while play events run 60 to 80.
What to Expect at Jen's Social networking
Bar meet and greets are the low key entry point. The host recommends them for newer couples and singles, with no pressure to play.
Hotel takeovers run two nights across the entire hotel. Night one is a pool party and night two a dance party, and guests can book either or both.
Hotel takeovers are BYOB. Guests wander the whole property rather than staying in one room.
Play events are a different proposition. Social time opens the evening and then it turns to play, and the host says it is not a night for standing around.
Every event carries a theme, which is never mandatory but which the host says most guests follow. Many change into lingerie style clothing later in the night.
At hotel takeovers a cracked door must be knocked on and answered. A door standing wide open is an invitation to say hello and check you are welcome.
Who Can Attend
Couples, single women and single men. Single men are accepted at most events but must be recommended, approved by the host and capped per event.
Some events exclude single men entirely, which the host states in the details for that event.
The typical age range runs from the mid twenties to the early sixties, with most attendees in their forties and fifties.
Throuples get special pricing, but only for the bar meet and greets.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Three event types: bar and club takeovers, two day hotel takeovers, and play events |
|---|---|
| Host | Jen, married to Travis for over 20 years, in the lifestyle for over 14 and hosting events for about 14 |
| Other group | The host also acquired the Sapphires Group some years ago |
| Area | Wisconsin and Illinois, at bars, clubs, hotels and suites |
| Bar meet and greets | Low key and recommended for newer couples and singles, with no pressure to play |
| Hotel takeovers | Two night events taking over the entire hotel. Night one is a pool party, night two a dance party, and guests can attend one night or both |
| Hotel policy | BYOB |
| Play events | For more experienced guests. Social time opens the night and then it becomes playtime, with no requirement to play with anyone |
| Event sizes | Bar events typically draw 150 to 250 people, play events 60 to 80, and hotel events 250 to 500 |
| Age range | Mid twenties to early sixties, with most attendees in their forties and fifties |
| Single men | Allowed at most events but highly recommended, approved by the host and capped by event size. Some events exclude them, which is stated in the listing |
| Throuples | Special pricing exists, but only for bar meet and greets |
| Payment | Online pricing is cheaper than the door. Some events allow cash or card at the door, which each listing states |
| Addresses | Bar takeovers publish the venue in the listing. Hotel and play event locations are sent after registration |
| Themes | Each event listing carries a theme. Dressing to theme is never mandatory, though the host says most people do |
| Dress | At most events other than bar nights, guests change into lingerie style clothing later in the night |
| Rules | No means no, do not take rejection personally, ask before touching or joining, and leave drama at home |
| Hotel door etiquette | A door cracked open must be knocked on and answered before entering. A door wide open is an invitation to say hello and check that you are welcome |
| Removal | The host reserves the right to ask anyone to leave, with no refund issued |
| Attendee lists | The host states that the attendee lists shown on advertising sites do not show everyone attending |
The events page carries a rolling calendar across formats, with dated listings running into 2027.
Recent listings include bar takeovers in Wisconsin towns, a complete strip club takeover and a New Year's Eve hotel event.
Hotel events can sell out quickly. One listing notes the main hotel sold out in under four hours and that a waitlist opened.
Planning a First Visit
Start with a bar meet and greet if you are new, which the host recommends specifically for newer couples and singles.
Buy online rather than at the door, since the host states the door price is higher where cash is accepted at all.
Enter an email address you check often at checkout, since that is how the host sends event information.
Expect the venue in the listing for a bar takeover, and after registration for a hotel or play event.
Single men should seek the host's approval early, since numbers are capped and some events exclude them.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Jen's Social networking Member Reviews
No member reviews of Jen's Social networking are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Jen's Social networking FAQ
Is this a club?
No. It is a host who runs takeovers and play events at bars, clubs, hotels and suites across Wisconsin and Illinois.
What event types run?
Bar and club takeovers, two day hotel takeovers, and play events for more experienced guests.
How big are the events?
Bar events typically draw 150 to 250 people, play events 60 to 80, and hotel events 250 to 500.
Can single men attend?
At most events, yes, but they must be recommended, approved by the host and are limited per event. Some events exclude them.
Where are the events held?
Bar takeovers publish the venue in the listing. Hotel and play event locations are sent after registration.
Can I pay at the door?
At some events, though the door price is higher than online. Each listing states whether it is allowed.
Are hotel takeovers BYOB?
Yes.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed jenssocialnetworking.com, including its etiquette and rules, FAQ, events and owner pages, on September 21, 2026. The three event formats and their descriptions, the Wisconsin and Illinois service area and the host's stated history come from that site. So do the event sizes, the age range, the single male approval and cap and the throuple pricing. The same pages give the payment and door policy, the address release policy and the theme and dress guidance. They also cover the hotel door etiquette and the house rules and the removal policy. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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