Gems Club: Birmingham, AL Members-Only Monthly Party Weekends
Listing last verified: September 20, 2026 · Source: Official club website, About Us, Rules, and events pages
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Last verified: September 2026 · Source: Official club website, About Us, Rules, and events pages · Report outdated information
About Gems Club
GEMS stands for Gorgeous Erotic Married Swingers, and the club describes itself as an established group for approved married couples in Birmingham, Alabama. It runs one party weekend a month, listed Friday through Sunday from 8 PM to 2 AM.
The 2026 calendar runs monthly. Haunted Desires is October 16 and 17 and Veterans Gone Wild is November 13 and 14. A December 11 and 12 weekend and a New Year's run from December 30 through January 1 close the year.
The About page is blunt: the club is not a sex party. It offers a private dance club atmosphere for professionals who want spice in their marriage, with law enforcement working security. Activities in your hotel room are your own business.
What to Expect at Gems Club
Parties are BYOB with mixers provided. Bring a small cooler if you need one and dress to impress or in theme. Leave the phone in the room, since no cameras, phones, or recording devices are allowed out at the event.
The rules put ladies in charge of first contact. Men may not initiate, and any unwanted contact gets a member removed and banned. Clothes stay on in hallways and lobbies, and adult play stays out of public view.
The event listings suggest a hotel setting with rooms, but the venue and address go only to approved members. Sharing them with a non-member ends your membership.
Who Can Attend
Approved couples 21 and over with a driver's license. The club says it is selective and reserves the right to decline anyone without explanation or notification.
Approval takes a validation photo uploaded with the application or a referral from a current member you have met in person. Without one of those, the application stays pending.
The club counted more than 2,000 couples from 18 states as of 2015. Prices and the GEMS Premium Membership cost are not published without a login.
Schedule, Membership, and Admission
| Format | Established private group and club for Gorgeous Erotic Married Swingers; monthly party weekends with a dance club atmosphere for members only; law enforcement works security |
|---|---|
| 2026 dates | September 11 to 12; October 16 to 17, Haunted Desires Halloween party; November 13 to 14, Veterans Gone Wild; December 11 to 12; December 30, 31, and January 1 |
| Hours | Events listed Friday to Sunday, 8 PM to 2 AM |
| Who | Couples approved under what the club calls the highest standards; no one under 21, driver's license required; more than 2,000 couples from 18 states as of 2015 |
| Approval | Upload a validation photo with the application or be referred by a current member you have met in person; applications without validation stay pending; the club may decline anyone without explanation |
| Contact rule | Females initiate the initial contact; males may not |
| Bar policy | BYOB with mixers only; no alcohol served; small coolers acceptable; members who arrive drunk are turned away |
| Rules | Clothes on in hallways and lobbies; no cameras, phones, or recording devices at the event; no drugs; dress to impress with no sports clothes or shorts unless in theme; no adult play in public view |
| Privacy | Giving out event location or details to non-members ends a membership; no guests who are not on the member list |
| Prices | NOT PUBLISHED without login |
One weekend a month. Remaining 2026 dates: October 16 to 17, November 13 to 14, December 11 to 12, and December 30 to January 1. Events are listed 8 PM to 2 AM.
Themes are announced per weekend, such as Haunted Desires for Halloween and Veterans Gone Wild in November.
Planning a First Visit
Apply on gemsclub.co with a validation photo, or ask a current member you have met to refer you. Wait for approval before planning around a date.
Once approved, buy the membership, pack your own bottle and a small cooler, and dress for the theme. Remember that women make the first move at GEMS.
Before any club night, review swinger club etiquette and what to wear to a swinger club. Couples new to the lifestyle can start with Swinger Lifestyle 101.
Gems Club Member Reviews
No member reviews of Gems Club are published yet. Reviews on this page come from couples and singles who have visited. Each one is checked against the club's own site before it goes up.
Been there? Email info@westcoastswingers.com with the month of your visit, what the night was like, and whether the published rules matched what you found. First names or initials only. Nothing that identifies another guest is published.
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Gems Club FAQ
Is GEMS Club on-premise?
No. The club says plainly that it is not a sex party. It provides a private dance club atmosphere, and what happens in your hotel room is your business.
Can single men attend GEMS Club?
No. GEMS is a club for approved married couples, and men are not permitted to initiate contact.
When are the parties?
One weekend a month. Remaining 2026 dates are October 16 to 17, November 13 to 14, December 11 to 12, and December 30 to January 1.
How much does it cost?
Prices are not published without a login. A GEMS Premium Membership is sold on the site.
Is it BYOB?
Yes. The club serves no alcohol and provides mixers. Small coolers are allowed.
How do I get approved?
Upload a validation photo with your application or have a current member you have met in person refer you. Approval is at the club's discretion.
How This Listing Was Verified
West Coast Swingers reviewed gemsclub.co on September 20, 2026, including the home page, About Us, Rules, and events pages. The 2026 dates, event hours, approval process, guest policy, BYOB rule, and conduct rules come from those pages. Prices and the venue are behind the member login. Email info@westcoastswingers.com if any detail has changed.
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